Well I have a Fiance that I love dearly...hes in the Infantry at Fort Stewart..so when I talk to him..i talk to most of his other guys friends.However there is one Guy who has dated both My Fiance's sisters..and he is now talking to the older sister(fiances younger sister)I live at my Finaces house with his mother and sisters..his sister and I share a room unless my fiance is done with the Infantry..So when this other guy calls..of course im there..He talks to me...he has my number because of my fiances lil lil sister...he has my yahoo sn..and added me as a friend on myspace...My fiance has a problem with it all...hes telling me that this guy is trying to break us up so he can have me...altough This guy has never really said anything to me about leaving my Fiance..or dating him...my fiance still thinks there is a problem...Yesterday..i was on the computer and this guy sent me a request to view his webcam while changing into his class a uniform....what do i do?
2006-08-16 02:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i tell my Fiance everything...so of cousre he knows about the webcam thing..but i would never view it i would never cheat...whats wrong with it?
2006-08-16 02:18:40 · update #1
Listen Richard...I do care about him i love him...but ive never had anyone telling me not to talk to someone...Its not that i dont care...Hes my sister-in-laws..well soon to be sister-in-laws bf...I dont really talk to him..all is is is hi..whats up...It was okay for me to talk to him.when they were friends...now that they had a fight..im suddenly not allowed..for those who say i dont care about my Fiance your wrong..he is my life...and i miss him..him being gone is hard on me...plus we have plans that i may moved to Fort Stewart with him..whats going to happen then im bound to see the guy...and the guy knows im not attracted to him..and i love my fiance dearly...
2006-08-16 03:16:03 · update #2
If your fiance doesn't want you talking to this guy, then don't. If you're loyal and faithful to him, then there's no reason to cause tension by talking to this guy.
And if he sent you a request to view his Web cam while he changed clothes, then he's after something...
Don't be naive.... Also, your man is in the military, away from home. That's hard on him ... don't make it harder by making him worry about losing you.
2006-08-16 02:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the situation...the guy has dated two sisters!!! No doubt he's grimey....if he wants to be friends that would be fine but when a guy talks to you more than is gf then look out....you may not see what's going on but it's obvious...he's friendly with you and he met you through your fiance....cut all ties with him now...tell him that you feel that he's too friendly for your taste and that you love your fiance too much
2006-08-16 09:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fiance is a guy so remember that. he knows how guys think and why they do things the way they do. thats why he is getting jealous. even though this guy is only being your friend, if there was a slight chance, he would take it. if your not comfortable with it, just dont talk to anymore. it might be for the best
2006-08-16 09:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to break you and your fiance up....maybe. Why is important for you to spend time with another guy when you already have a fiance. Its ok to have casual chats once in a while, but if its all the time, even i might get angry.
2006-08-16 09:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I GUESS YOUR FIANCE ISN'T THAT IMPORTANT TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE LETTING THIS GUY GO BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SOON TO BE HUSBAND WOMEN YOU SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED BECAUSE A DIVORCE WILL COME RIGHT AFTER, YOUR SOON TO BE SHOULD BE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT PERSON NOBODY ELSE DON'T YOU HAVE ANY MORALS. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS BLOCK THIS GUY OUT AND FOCUS ON YOUR MARRIAGE SOON TO BE AND DROP EVERYONE ELSE IF NOT LEAVE HIM GO SOMEWHERE ELSE.
2006-08-16 09:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by richard d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep your man sweetie, the best thing to do is not talk to this guy again. Show him this guy is nothing to you...delete/block everything to do with this guy.
Is talking to this guy enough to ruin your good relationship?
2006-08-16 09:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋