My husband gets sex every other day, even when it's that time of the month he gets something! He gets his meals handed to him on a plate, and he has no responsibilities around the house. I go to the gym to make sure I stay in a size 6-7 for him. So you tell me how any man could not be happy!?!
2006-08-16 02:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by depressed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry it's impossible to know the answer ... only you know what's really going on between you and your husband.
To me it sounds like YOU aren't happy!
Could that, then, be the answer as to why he isn't happy?
Please take good care of yourself, put yourself first wherever possible, do something YOU like rather than going to the gym for HIM... Because if you live your life for HIM instead of for YOUrself, you will feel increasingly empty. And then the really unfair thing happens: you sacrificed everything for him and he's comfortable but not truly happy with it because it's hard to be truly attracted to someone who feels empty inside.
This is just my guess, and I'm sure it sounds cruel too...
But please be good to yourself, as good as you can, don't forget to do things that make you happy and to say no to things that don't make you happy. You practically owe it to yourself... husbands and children don't usually like that at first because it pushes them out of their comfort zone, but it does make them a lot happier in the long run...
Sorry, not trying to be a smart-a*s, just trying to say something helpful.... all the very best to you, good luck!!!
2006-08-16 02:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW!!! Thats one hell of a question. I dont know who larry s is, but I can tell you that your husband should be very happy. I mean, its not everyman that gets to marry his own servant. (if my husband ever thought he was gonna get that from me, I would look at him laugh hysterically, and then say alright now, you've had your fun thought for the day now take out the trash, or fix your own supper)(I tend to like to fix supper, I'll admit that, Its one of those things I really enjoy doing) But yeah, anyways, what was I saying? I cant remember, oh yeah, Who is Larry S?????
2006-08-20 01:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMMM
2006-08-16 02:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you whine like this all the time? That is probably why, I could barely get through this question.
2006-08-16 02:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are unhappy and you described yourself as "depressed".If you are deprresed then you will not be satisfied with anything. Being married to a bitter woman that is impossible to please is no happiness.
2006-08-16 02:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a complaint, or a comment. He's a lucky guy
2006-08-16 02:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋