My mums partners nephew is the same age as me and we get along REALLY well and have made our emotions pretty clear to each other but i dont know if it would ruin my mums relationship because she is with a really nice guy but when im around my step cousin and we are alone we are practicaly on top of each other and always beins stupid about one thing or another when with family and he is always trying to impress me, AND IT WORKS. How can i further our relationship without our family finding out and what happens if i get pregnant, please dont be too mean i;m really frustrated and confused about this!
What do i do???????????????????
2006-08-16 01:57:39 · 25 answers · asked by Lolly P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Talk to your mom. That's what adults do with they're worried they're going to step on each other's feelings. You might be surprised at how rational she can be about sex inside the family. She can't completely scorn you for being attracted to him. He obviously comes from attractive stock. Maybe it's not as big of a deal as you think. Reguardless you shouldn't be fooling around in secret, best case scenario it won't go anywhere and nobody will hate you. Worse Case scenario it still won't go anywhere but circumstances might get worse.
2006-08-16 02:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should devise a plan to see if you too really want to be together first. Plan a sit down with your mother and her partner. Tell her that you would like to go out on a date together, and ask if they find that acceptable. If they think it's OK, then do exactly that...... go out on a few dates as a couple and see how it goes. Then, if you decide to sleep with him (using precautions of course), then it won't feel so weird, because your mom and her partner will know that you are dating. If they are against the idea, then I think actually hearing what they have to say will cool your feelings for one another. It can't hurt to try this. Good Luck!
2006-08-16 02:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by never.say.never 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your step cousin there should be no reason why you shouldn't get together. It's not like you are actually related in any way. Your family finding out should not be the issue. You should talk to him about it and get his feelings unless you like the thought of this being taboo. In that case keep it secret until you see if this relationship is really going to work. If it does then you can let your family know.
2006-08-16 02:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by grooveface 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can sleep with whoever you want. Does that make it right? NO - maybe grow up a bit before you move forward with this. You sound very young. Sleeping with step family is kind of like sleeping with co-workers. Something about not playing in your own backyard.
2006-08-16 02:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is the craziest thing I ever heard. But try to keep it hidden I guess, and dont get pregnant! Good luck
2006-08-16 02:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by slocklin0931 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That appears like a Hoe to me:) Who the Hell sleeps with their mothers guy.notwithstanding if or no longer they are married or no longer, it does not make it to any extent further suited!!!! That chick has no morals:) i think of her mom would desire to do away with the two certainly one of them:) No Offense to all people,yet it is purely incorrect!!!!
2016-10-02 03:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is related at all that is a definate no! Maybe you like the idea of the chase, so chase someone else!
2006-08-16 02:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice would be... sleep with him...use condoms... and eventually u'll have to move on bcuz of the situation with ur mom and all... but in the meantime... do urself a favor and resolve that sexual tension issue... GET NAKED WITH HIM!!! while u still can... if u wait too much it'll get too wierd. ;)
2006-08-16 02:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Filo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be sleeping with anybody that you are not prepared to spend the rest of your life with.
You are too young to even be thinking about this.
2006-08-16 02:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no blood relationship so that is good. You have very good concerns. Pregnancy is the biggest. Don't do it.
2006-08-16 02:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋