I can never have an opionion, she is always right when she gets mad she breaks things.
2006-08-16 01:51:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Domestic issues and violence is against the law. It's not normal, but it can happen with people that have alot of anger within themselves. As a suggestion - if you she shows any violence and hits you and throws things around. Don't hesitate to call 911. The court's after reporting it can help you with a restraining order until professional help with her issues are taken care of (anger control management) seperating yourself from that type of surrounding would be a self love gift.
2006-08-16 02:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by cariadion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? Short time. Get the marriage annulled. Then move on. Don't get her pregnant. Use protection. etc.
If you've been married for over 6 months did this start before or after the marriage? If before dumb you. If after is she pregnant? Hormonal mood swings during early pregnancy is common.
Get some counceling too. Sounds like you are both going to need it. Both from a psychologist and a lawyer. And don't wait. Longer you are in this type of relationship the worst it gets. It will also not be healthy for kids later either.
2006-08-16 02:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by .*. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has some anger issues as well as control issues. Don't feel like less of a man but from past experience, you need to put your foot down. Get mad back, sometimes all they want is a reaction, and the less of a reaction the more pissed they get. It sounds silly and forgive me women for this comment, but some women with these kind of issues, need and maybe crave some control of there man. Put her in her place and not nicely, show her whos boss, at least for the moment. And maybe she will gain respect for you as "The Man" in the relationship.
2006-08-16 02:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by shmidly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for an anger management course and counselling if you still want the relationship to continue.
Be firm with your principles and when she has cool down have a heart to heart talk. Find the root why she is always wanting to break things? Destruction is not a solution but a creation of more frustrations.
2006-08-16 02:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your wife pushes you around or hit you or even leaving you at home by yourself doesn't mean that all women are doing the same thing. NO. Not all women are like that. I respect and cherish my man and I will never do that to him.
2006-08-16 02:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by babe_of_spanish_gladiator69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all try to tell her you love her and want her to get help for her problem. Make sure she knows that you are willing to work with her on things. If she doesn't listen or try then just let her go because in the end you will end up getting hurt on the emotional and physical side.
2006-08-16 01:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Get Money 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you right now all women do not carry on like that. You just happened upon a bad apple. Guy you have to take control of your life. A situation like this can only end badly. One day she'll hurt you or you'll hurt her trying to defend yourself. Life's too short to be so unhappy. Take it from someone who got fed up and got away. You can do it too. Good luck!
2006-08-16 01:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves to be treated that way. Get out of that relationship as soon as possible. Find you someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
In the mean time the next time she hits you, back hand the hell out of her. If she is going to stand like a man, treat her like one.
2006-08-16 01:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. The question is,what seems to be the reason why is she is actin like that? It depends what kind of relationship you have with her.Is she really like that from the very start? You and your wife can solve this problem,you have to talk each other.
2006-08-16 02:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by ojecjosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through. Yesterday evening I was sitting in my recliner with a beautiful blonde haired, blue eyed female on my lap. We were having alot of fun, but my wife came in and spoiled it all. She grabbed the blonde off my lap and carried her away. I was completely shocked, but I guess she knew the granddaughters diaper needed changing.....
2006-08-16 02:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by rookiewriter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋