give me oral sex....im not gay but wonder what it feels like....should i let him try it on me......or wold that make me gay
2006-08-16 01:41:22 · 15 answers · asked by boytoy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you feel ok with this act, try......it won't make you gay!
2006-08-16 02:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by alb86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To do it once and experiment no you would not be gay. You could end up liking it and there is a tendency in sexual experimenting to continue with sexual behaviors after you have tried it. What I mean is every time you and your friend get together he will want to give you oral sex. Also, after the first few times your friend will want the favor returned. Do you want to put your friends penis in your mouth and suck on it? So here are the issues. 1. Do you want to repeat the behavior over and over. 2. Do you want to do the same to your friend? 3. Do you think you will end up really liking it? 4. Will your friend tell others that what you do and invite them to join him when he gives you oral sex? Do you want several boys sucking on your penis? 5. Has your friend done this with other boys and if so he stands the risk of having gotten sexually transmitted diseases? There seems to be a lot of issues. Personally I would not do it. However, I realize the arousal and sexual temptation is very very strong. So if you can say no and resist I would. If you can't then you need to talk with your friend and set some rules. You also need to ask your friend if he has done this before and if he has I would avoid sex with him. You could just masturbate together the old fashion way and use a lot of lubricant. That will deminish the urges and help you say no to oral sex. As for how it feels. It feels so good you will want to do it again and you could be tricked into gay relationships even though you aren't gay. Then when you are 18 or 22 you would wish you did not do it.
2006-08-16 03:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you cross that boundary, and give him consent to perform this on you, you are performing a 'gay act'. If you continued to experiment in this way, you could call it gay......
If you really want to know what it feels like, get a girlfriend who will willingly give you oral, alot of girls like it also.
2006-08-16 01:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by GuessWho 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would let him do it but I am gay. It sounds like you might be interested in him doing this. Try it. This may have consequences on your friendship though. Maybe you should try it with someone other than a friend.
2006-08-16 03:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to experiment sexually and be curious, however, having a guy give you head might ruin the experience of oral sex with a girl because, hey, guys just know what it really feels like to have a penis and girls just guess. Anyway, good lick, I mean luck.
2006-08-16 04:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of curiosity and out of experience, give it a try but just don't abuse it cause it will really make you gay.
2006-08-16 02:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by july 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Try it if you are comfortable with it. 2. No, it won't make you gay. 3. Learn to spell.
2006-08-16 01:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by jessiekatsopolous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as I always say, sexuality is an odd complicate affair and in my opinion, everybody should live it fully and freely with no kind of conditioning. As like as others inner and unusual stuffs then it’s not opportune to expose them, as George Bernard Shaw says: -Sometimes it is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid. Hey... act as you prefer and please don’t think bad about sex.
2006-08-16 02:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am shocked to read this. He cannot be your best friend. Tell him frankly that you are not gay. Ask him how would he feelif the tables are turned.
2006-08-16 01:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Haresh Bhagia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happy with it go for it, it don't make you guy just curious, I've tried sleeping with a girl but I'm not by or a lesbian just curious.
2006-08-16 01:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋