I dont understand
My friend started being really off with me on msn and on the phone
i am not sure what i have done the only thing i can think of is i told her i was hanging out with a friend tonight so i couldnt hang with her, when she came around with out a call or msg to say she is coming and she dosent let me hang out with her friends
i tryed calling her to ask her what have i done and she said nowt g2g and put the phone down not even a bye
I would REALLY like some help x
2006-08-16 01:15:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am having a similar problem with a friend right now. I have to play the guilty one when I did nothing wrong. When I asked her what was wrong, she responded to me with I don't wish to discuss this right now. So I just apologized for "hurting her feelings" even though I have no idea what I did. Some people are just that way and you can't change them, which stinks, but it is what it is.
2006-08-16 01:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is totally a jealousy situation. Why couldn't she hang with you also. Then another sentence reads "her friends???? Why shouldn't she be included? You may have ruined this friendship by choosing others and not including her. However, never give up on a true friend. Give her some space and then try again for a reconciliation. Good luck!
2006-08-16 01:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by ambay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call, talk to her in person. if she wouldn't listen shout at her, force her to listen. I mean, so what? You say she's got HER friends, so what if you too got friends other than her? It's not a sin. And if that's why she's upset then she's defiantly wrong and selfish. you could leave her, or if you want her back keep trying to find out what's wrong, but remember: always talk to her in person so she can't run away and will have to listen. If she's a true friend she would wait till you're done talking. If she doesn't listen to you, walk away. you might miss her but you KNOW you've done nothing wrong and shouldn't feel guilty about it.
2006-08-16 01:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by ALlr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a typical senerio of WHO HURT WHO'S FEEL BADS? Now it is a tit for tat on the ignorant, childish behavior to each other! If you can't get along in the sand box one of you girls will end up with sand in her eyes and a bucket on the head!
2006-08-16 01:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is not a true friend. The only way she is a friend is when she gets her way.
2006-08-16 01:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes you more than a friend, and is jealous of you hanging out with anyone else.
2006-08-16 01:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by lindsayclaireanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask
her feelings sound hurt.
2006-08-16 01:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is jellos
2006-08-16 01:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋