She feels always tired and down. She has her family problems because her sister has a fatal illness. I need your advice guys.
2006-08-16 01:11:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
diamond ring & put a Red flower in it.
2006-08-16 20:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by ღ♡♥SeNioriTa♡♥ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best gift you can give your wife at this time is your love and support and understanding. Listen to her when she is upset and give her a shoulder to cry on when she needs it. I do recommend that you take to the doctors and get her a complete physical and see if she could be suffering from depression and needs counseling. She could have a serious problem of her own and not even know it.Sometimes people need to talk to someone other than a family member when they need help. Thats where counselors can help and be willing to go with her to show your support if she wants you to go. Seeking counseling is nothing to be ashamed of and could do your marriage a world of good. I hope things get better for the both of you and I pray God helps her sister and the both of you get through these trying times. Good luck to you
2006-08-16 01:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you can give her. One evening in which you cook and clean. You cook or even order, a home cooked meal and set it all up on the table with candelight and china. Make sure to add the rose for a centerpiece. Pamper her with a back neck and foot message after she gets out of the warm bubblebath you ran her. Then spend the next couple hours doing absolutely nothing but talking holding and cuddling. It may go on from there, but trust me...she will love it so much that she will think back on that night for years to come whenever she gets down!!! It will all be worth the trouble too. Have you ever noticed how women can get into a really good mood and how much easier life is for you guys after something happens to them like this night. She will even repay you for the kindness I'm pretty sure.
2006-08-16 01:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can give her is your love and support. According to a psychology book that I have read, the best thing that a person can give to another person is his personal touch. Try to be there always for her. and if she even if there are times that she would nag you and be irritated, dont be mad at her. Hug her and comfort her, try to tell her how you feel. That you are hurt when you see her suffer. Just be sensitive enough to her feelings, and understand her. May be you could walk in your place and let her open to you her hurts, her doubts and what she really feels about her sister's illness. It will help her a lot. It will eventually release her bearings through your talk. and when you are talking, please bring her to a peaceful place with trees so that she will relax her mind even only for that time and ask her that she will just take aside her bearings and all she has to think at that moment is the place, the silent humming of birds..And request her to close her eyes .. breathe .. and when she closed her eyes. prepare something , even just a flower andand kiss her and let her open her eyes and see your gift to her. even with that little gesture of yours, I know she would appreciate it.
Good luck brother!
2006-08-16 01:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by LAdy_psychology 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A day for herself. Take care of the house, if you have children take them give her a day off. Get her to a day spa so she can get a professional massage a total make over then when she comes home have a baby sitter and take her out for a night on the town. Make it a night to remember.
2006-08-16 01:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by jane d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her your attention, love, understanding, compassion, and listen to her. when you listen do not try to fix the problems she is talking to you about. just listen attentively with compassion, reassure her that your love is unconditional and pull her into your arms when she is done and let her cry, smile, sigh or just breathe.
if possible, send your wife and her sister to the beach for a few days (just the two of them) to get away from the world and do some inner healing.
you are a good man.
2006-08-16 01:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now she needs emotional support, care, love, prayers and understanding. Be there for her whenever she feels down. Take time to listen to her when she tells u about her problems, advice her accordingly, visit her sister with her and console her, in short be supportive to her during this hard times. and GOD will bless u!
2006-08-16 01:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Bite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her sister is able to get around, send the both of them for pedicures and a massage. Go pay for it yourself- don't give them a gift certificate. I can not stand when my husband hands me a gift card for a special occasion.
2006-08-16 01:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by lindsayclaireanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much you appreciate her, hug her everyday and honestly say I love you. Help around the house.
Maybe also you can splurge and pay for her and her sister to either get their nails done or maybe even a massage (just time alone together).
Will keep them both in my prayers.
2006-08-16 01:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Carey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a women's point of view a little bit of help around the house, a ear to just listen, a shoulder to cry on, a hug without the sex ,and a nice cup of tea.
2006-08-16 01:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your LOVE and SUPPORT are the most important. My hubby went through a lot when my mom was dying. We brought her to live with us. And he was the best. He helped me care for her, and he was there when I didn't think I could make it through. Just be there for her. That is the best gift you can give. I am really sorry to hear that she has to go through this. I know how hard it can be. Please just love and comfort her the best you can.
You will be in my prayers.
2006-08-16 01:19:50 · answer #11 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋