am i racist?

Question

i would rather not date other than while girl, and the reason is that i find white girl more sexy, i mean even if girl is natturally white and she i tanned she aint sexy for me,
so obviously i would not rather not date black woman

my fav actor is Will Smith...

i like racist jokes,

and i do belive in fact that most of criminals in New York and London are blacks,

but i dont mind having black friends,

even though if i would have kid i would not be happy is she/he would be dating not caucasian

i also think that everyone no matter what color of skin have right to be free.

so am i racist or not?

Answer 1

Not at all. I hate all of this Racism shi*te towards white people on Black.

Black people don't have a problem saying that they would only date black, so why should white people.

Don't get me started on the whole MOBO thing either. If there was an award ceremony for being a white musician, there would be hell on.

I know that for many many years black people were repressed and forced into slavery, but that is not longer the case. Everybody has the right to be free so lets do it! white, black, whatever!!!

Answer 2

No its just your preference. I prefer white men, and i do belive there are more black/asian criminals than white. Im just saying what i see. On the news its the majority. Im not racist coz i have had friends who are asian, but i wouldnt date a black/asian man. It just doesnt rock my boat. Like some black /asian men would rather date people from there own culture. I have rarely seen people of different skin colours dating. Its not wrong that you think this. Its just who you are most attracted to. Is being attracted to girls with blonde hair only (for example-id prefer you to be attracted to red head ;) lol) mean you are racist? no! I like Will smith too! so dont worry! :) x

Answer 3

Not necessarily, A racist hates every member of an ethnic group for the only reason that they are a member of that ethnic group.

You prefer white girls. Everyone has their own tastes.

Will Smith is a good actor.

Most racist jokes ARE funny.

Most violent petty criminals in New York and London are, in fact, black

Blacks can be good friends

You don't want the races to intermingle.

All men are created equal.

No, you are not a racist. A bigot, maybe, but we all have our perceptions on the world.

Answer 4

you have let the media give you a stero typical view. i have it to. i no longer have a tv.

technically you are a racist, but if nobody knows.. the only person your hurting is yourself

the way to get around this, i think might be your take on crime.

when was the last time you think a black man made over £100 million an a naughty stock market deal.. oh dear, is that normally white guys? takes a whole lot of muggings to reach those numbers..

Ok so, i agree, ive lived in east london, and it did seem like there was a good deal of crime directly belonging to people of more colour.

but you have to remember the papers report what they want to. unless you see it yourself, you cant be sure its real, and most of the crime going on is at such a hig level of business, your stereotype cant exist, because surely black people cant be managers..... and if they were... your wrong anyway..

Answer 5

some of what you say does come accross as racist, but your conscience is obviously speaking to you too.

i like to think that i am not racist, but the facts are that the vast majority of people do have some prejudices or feelings in different situations. perhaps you think they are the criminals, because that is the way it is portrayed in the media.

i have decided not to try and prove that i am not racist, but to treat each person as i would like to be treated.

as for your child having an interracial relationship, i had a friend once who asked me whether i would allow or be happy for my daughter to be with an abusive or criminal minded man, or if i would prefer her to be with a sensitive, caring man. the answer would be obvious , but she then said what if the first bloke is white and the second is black. to me, it is still a no-brainer.

so even though i won't be trying to influence any particular love interest, i will respect my child for who she wants to be with, as i trust she will find an emotionally stable character.

in this society that we are living in, it is easy to say something a little off, and get others with their self-righteous BS making you doubt yourself. but like i say , i doubt there are many people who have not had an impure thought whether because of race or other prejudices.

just be a nice dude to people in general and you will be surprised what you can learn. Speaking from experience as i was brought up in the Apaartheid era of Rsa,where i did not get to know anyone of colour. what i know now ,is that some of the people i have met since the change ,which has brought us more in each others company ,is that we can learn from each other, and i definately have a group of friends now who are more genuine then a lot of self obsessed people in my own race. and no, i am not being racist to myself.

Answer 6

No your racist. Many black people will say they'd only date another black person. I like "racist jokes". There just jokes. I'm not white. I'm mixed black/white, and some people who don't know me (like black people or asian) will say to me, why do you laugh at that. I say because its funny. Its a sad world if you can't laugh at a joke.

Fav actor Brad Pitt

Fact most crimes are commited by blacks in New York, though not necessary so in London - eastern europeon problem there.

I only date white men. I don't know why other than they appeal to me more than a black man does.

Most of my friends are white - though I do have friends from many different countries as well.

Facts.

Answer 7

NO, people have romantic preferences. And in that area were all a little shallow. One of my best friend is mexican and he only dates white girls, He is a bit self loathing. and as for criminal activity well most of the serial killers are white, poverty breeds criminal activity. As a country we still have ways to go. Stereotypes exits because they exist, but not everyone is a stereotype, but i see them around though.

Answer 8

Jesus calm down buddy!!!! Think you have modern society syndrome. Don't worry, just drink half a bottle of Jack Daniels and the answer willl blurt out your mouth when asked "Are you a racist?" Also it will help you with your ehhh how do i put this "English". Luv U Tuns U little racist U.

Answer 9

I think you need to think about your own motivations. If you really think that white women are sexier then presumably you object to any of your kids dating a non white person because YOU wouldn't find them sexy?

As I don't think that could possibly be your reasoning then you are obviously predjudiced about people with a different skin colour to your own.

Answer 10

It sounds to me, at worst you are a closet racist and at best just not very well educated.

I would edge on the answer "racist". You appear to think that it is okay to use black people for your own entertainment; you "like racist jokes" and "have black friends".

In fact I can't understand why anyone would say that they find racist jokes funny. Racism is not a laughing matter - people get killed by racists - how funny is that!