i see alot of women get treated badly and they are too afaid to leave or do something about it, why do we feel we deserve this why are men such assholes????
2006-08-16 00:33:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's because alot of women have very low self esteem and don't think they can do any better. I know when I was married to my son's father he cheated on me for over a year and I knew about it..yeah, it bothered me but at the time I didn't think I deserved any better. The last straw was when he began accusing ME of cheating (which I was NOT doing) and he knocked me off of a chair. I refuse now to let a man treat me like sh*t and get away with it. I'd rather be single,,,,
2006-08-16 00:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by huggygrrl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay. Let's just start with the assumptions of your question.
Most women don't let men treat them like crap. A few unfortunate women make lousy choices in life due to self-esteem problems or not being objective enough when the romance takes bloom.
Second, why the universal assumption that men are assholes. Lots are. Lots are not. That would be akin to my saying that all women are bitches.
Third, maybe you should try a different approach and consider people as individuals rather than deal in generalities.
2006-08-16 04:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey they can be the worst and the best too. Been there done that.Learnt to take charge and take action.Now have no complaints. the trick is to take action if it doesnt stop.Men tend to be in a thought that they are supreme over women.
Women tend to take all factors to decide on course of action or remain in such relationships. Most of the times it may not be entirely the love for the other person,but family pressures,social stigma attached with leaving the spouse.
2006-08-16 02:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH! Love is such a pain in the ***, these woman have lost their self respect and either let themselves go or have been beaten down to the point that they can't get up and fight the battle. Fear is a strong motivator when your feeding little children, it takes some real courage to step the first step and mean it! Once they do they never go back, ever! Often they kick themselves for awhile for not doing it sooner!
2006-08-16 00:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every women has a different reason, some feel they aren't better than what they're getting. sometimes it has to do with money, children, no where else to go, lots of reason. but I think the main one is that women just want someone to love them and they will do anything for it even put up with an ***. A lot remember how it used to be and keep thinking its going to be the same some day.
2006-08-16 00:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by amylynn31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually because the women have a very low self esteem about her self and the men used that to control her and and after awhile they believe that's what they deserve. its really is sad, but if you know a women going thru that the best way it just be her friend and show her she is a good person and help her build her self esteem up it takes a while but it can be done and help them get the strength to leave him
2006-08-16 00:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by parrotsarenoisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most don't, but some do, just like men allowed themselves to be verbally abused by women as well. People who accept this for their lives have self-esteem issues and feel they can't do better. I had to be married to a total jerk to appreciate the great guy I have now.
2006-08-16 01:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, actually. In my case, I studied martial arts for self defense.
Maybe these women are scared of men, maybe they've always thought of men to be "the leader" or something crazy like that. Maybe because they don't want to break up a relationship, even though it would cause them pain.
There really are women like that.
2006-08-16 00:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by annyhc821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am not a women but I have asked some very simular questions on here. Basicly about women gravitating to jerks while saying they want a "Nice Guy".
Strange creatures you are. I am not a jerk but I want a women so since I have been both a nice guy and a jerk. I hope I am somewhere in between now.
2006-08-16 00:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by tfh777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz women are scared of moving out of their 'comfort zone'....in this instance, it means getting out of a relationship that they are already familiar with and seeking a fresh start in life. Besides, more women than men are governed by their hearts. To leave someone or something behind seems to tug at their heartstrings.
2006-08-16 00:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋