Ive liked this lad for over a year, weve kissed but then he kissed one of my mates so I just forgot about him even though it was hard. Nothing major happened with my friend and this guy as shes got a boyfriend now and only did it to p*i*s*s me off! Now he has started texting me again seeing what Ive been up too, the last message I received was on Sat and not heard anything since I texted him on Monday but got no reply! Can someone tell me (men or women) what he's playing at.....? Sorry if this question is boring) lol x x
2006-08-16 00:01:57 · 36 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lets be honist it sounds like the guy does really like you but your friend came on to him and he went for it.
You cant expect a guy to behave like a monk, if you liked him so much why didnt you give the guy a sign!!!!
To monay girls seem to think that men are going to make the first move when in actual fact we are as scared of being turned down as much are you girls are afraid of being rejected.
Your friend who kissed him knowing full well how much you liked him is not a friend at all and you should cut her out of your life.
It depends on what you put in your text message to this lad, try being flirty with your text messages and let him know that you like him but dont be to obvious because nobody likes a girl who makes it too easy.
Dont be boring in your txts, ask him what hes upto , and drop some hints as to what you are doing.
a good one my girlfriend used to get me was when I texted her and asked what she was upto she replied that she had just got out of the shower or was just getting dressed.
This puts the image of you naked / half naked in his mind and should come up with some intresting results.
Just remember be flirty.
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2006-08-16 00:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had you but then still got off with your friend? I'd get rid of the pair of em'.
Watch that he's not using you to get closer to your friend. I don't suppose that she split up or had a row with her boyfriend over the weekend? It might explain why you haven't heard off this guy since Saturday.
Stop texting him honey, you gave it your best shot now cut your losses and find someone new.
2006-08-16 00:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are real simple, kid.
They want sex.
They (we) will do virtually anything for sex.
Everything we say, do, and appear to do is to further the attainment of sex.
If we get sex, we are happy.
If we don't get sex, we are nasty.
Your boyfriend is not "playing", he is hunting. When he makes a kill (either you or one of your mates, or perhaps some other bird), he'll have a fat and happy look for a few days/weeks/months, until he gets hungry again.
That's about it. Not hard to understand at all, is it?
2006-08-16 00:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Grendle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever happend to a phone call? Texts always go missed by me. I'de hate that. Also, it seems so impersonal. He's probably just sticking his toe in, testing the temperature of the water.
2006-08-16 00:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his being a head fcuk 4get him, u dont need that crap. His immature and wants to look good infront his mates. I reckon u should get bak at him and be noticed and kiss his mates lol that what i would do, no not really! hmmm 4get him his a head fcuk plenty of gents out there
2006-08-16 00:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by shy pie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont meaan to sound harsh but personally i think that this guy knows you like him and is using you until something better comes along. sounds to me like your his back-up plan. personally id just forget about him and have some fun with your mates.. another lad will come along and youll forget all about him! someone that cares about you and wants to be with you. hope it all goes well x x x
2006-08-16 00:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are not that hard to understand. This guy is doing the checkers game move. Check her see the game if it is still playable then move on to another with the knowlege that (you) the base is still covered. My fellow men dont kill me for exposing this one.
2006-08-16 00:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worth your time! You already don't trust him so you would be going into it in the negative anyway. Anyone who would betray you like that doesn't deserve you and even your frendship! I would never speak to either on of them again!
2006-08-16 00:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by LG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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I do feel that you're reflecting some sort of confusion rather than posing a question.
I hope you'll have what you're looking for at the end of the day
Good luck
2006-08-16 00:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a game player wants you there at his beck and call when suits him. Don't be fooled by him, he probably knows you like him and hes more likely after sex so will use your feelings towards him to get it.
2006-08-16 00:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by a mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋