Does anyone see any future for me and my bf?

Question

I'm in a long distance relationship with my Thai bf for almost half year now! He is in Canada and I am in Toronto. It was my family's order to move back and because of my bf's background, my family did not want me to be with him, I fully trust myself and him in this relationship, I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years. We have never been apart, we were always together, this relationship seems so hard on us with so much pressure surround us, we still believe in our love and we stay faithful to each other. I have one question that has been bothering me. My family wants me to take over the family business which means going back to my bf and live together will be a dream to me. He is trying so hard to make both of us to be together. I don't know what to do. I can't not to have him. He means so much to me!!~Being with him means I have to give up on something that is lot important to me. Without him, I will do whatever to hurt myself for not being with him. It's so hard on me

Thanks for everyone's comments regarding my problem. I apologize for the confusing detail. I am 23 in Taiawanand he is 27 in Toronto.

He knows that I have been in a very difficult situation to make decision for the future and he said he would like to give it a try before we give up. His life is hard enough and I feel so bad for getting him into this kind of situation

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I met my current girlfriend on the Internet when she was in Iran. Now she's in Boston and I'm in DC. It's still a long distance, but we're seeing each other regularly and will be trying to get together. Long distance relationships really suck. It's hard to keep the intimacy going over the phone. It is also difficult to move closer to the person, often.

You have to really look past the emotions to figure out if you can live with your boyfriend. Consider that family business. That's difficult to give up. It could give you a steady and safe job for quite a while. Perhaps your boyfriend can move closer to you. Does he really want to?

In any relationship, you have to figure out what your goals and his are. Communicate. Talk these things out. Where will you live and what will you do?

That said, life is pretty boring if you don't take chances. If you don't try, you might have regrets later. Live life to the fullest.

Answer 3

Does your love great enough to give up your family business for your bf? If it is that much, then go for it and don't be regret. One person has to make sacrifaction to stay intact.

Family pressure is a problem. Most Asian family parents are like that. But you are the one who in love but not them. It takes time for your family to get to know him more and understand his background. Is possible but need some works.

Long distance is kinda hard. Even with these days internet and technology, it is still hard of not feeling each other in person for too long.

Answer 4

Sorry, no.
The function of love and romance is to compel pair bonding for the purposes of reproduction. It is awfully dang hard to reproduce over a couple of hundred miles.
Your confliction here is between taking the safe side with your parents and their offer of the family business, and hooking up with Thai bf, who can't seem to get his act together to come for you, or join you.
Thwarted sex drive is painful, but you will spend most of your adult life thwarting impulses (it's called growing up).
Be good, and if bf comes to town, then give him a tumble. Otherwise, listen to your folks.

Answer 5

Im confused hes in Canada an ur in Toronto which is in Canada.so whats the problem?What age are u?how can ur parents tell u who to c?stand up 4 urself 4 petes sake!

Answer 6

Look miss your problem is so big and it's only solution is ur parents and ur friend can help u too.
As i can see that u love ur boyfrnd so much and he too then no harm u will face in future and specially frm the side ofm ur boy frnd.And look miss i can help you but not like this contact me in messenger as ur wish.But i can assure that in future when you will get somemore faith of ur parents and when you get more sensible. Your relationship and it's future is good but it is on you.

Answer 7

Well, if your love is so strong..then go on..
as long as u persevere..
it will be a hard road to take
u n ur bf must suffer before both of u can be together..
so...

Answer 8

Priorty is the key! I dont know what's more important for you. Your love or the family business. You will select which is more important to you. But the problem is selection between choices :)

Answer 9

The answer is "NO".

No man, or woman, is worth giving up your family. They've given you life, what has your boyfriend given you that can honestly match up to that??? Trust me, whatever your parents are doing, they're doing it out of love.

Answer 10

Then go n be with him!!! if u love him as much as u say u do, nothin should stand in ur way. and if ur family love u like they should, they too shoukd understand just sit n talk with everyone n let them know how u feel. u an't try n please everyone.. and u shouldn't give up sumfin u really want just to try n please them...

Answer 11

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'cause u asked me 2 see a future