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i am just 14 and have a bf he is 15
he comes everyday in my house!
we study together!
after finishing our study yesterday he locked the gate of the room and forcely opened mine as well as his clothes.
and pressed my breast and did all those stuffs forcely to me.
is it raping?
well now he's telling to have it with him again and again
and if i don't he will show my pictures in school
he forcely tooked the pictures of the whole thing and also recorded in the handicam
he did it all forcely

2006-08-15 23:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by divya g 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

19 answers

he doesn't deserve to be called ur bf. He's just a lustful man with no aims in his life. I suggest talking to your parents. Do not talk to him about it since he'll make nice plans to rubbish your thougts. If the matter gets serious, talk to his parents and take him to a counsellor. This event may not be termed as rape, but it is a sexual assault. If the matter becomes way too serious and violent, the police is your only hope. DO NOT CONTINUE WITH THIS PERSON

2006-08-15 23:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

Yes that is a rape because he did all that stuff without your permission. How do you know if you do have sex with that he won't still show the pictures at school? That's a big risk you'll have to take not to have sex with. It's your choice and your body so if you don't wanna do it then don't now matter what he says or do. But if he raise his hands towards that's when you beat that n igaa azz. But you should choice very wisely. I was in the same problem when I was 15 he forced his way and I ended up getting pregnant but my baby had died. I'm 28 now with 10 kids by my husband we got married when I was 20. But I'm still young and I look good for my age to.

2006-08-16 06:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Divine Diva of 06 1 · 0 0

Aww im sorry.. Dont Worry.. Ive Been Through The Same Kinda Situation.. And Its Terrifing.. People Think Its Not That Big Of A Deal.. Im 17 And I Have Sooo Many Fears From It..
Tell Your Parents.. I Told My Mom And She Brought Me To This Place And They Told Me All About Them Kinda Things.. If You Cant Tell Your Parents.. Talk To Your Friend And Get Them To Help You Find Information On It.. If Theres Anything I Can Do.. Please Let Me Know.. I Know How You Feel.. And You Can Tlk To Me About It.. Ill Do My Best To Help You Out.. Email Me Or Msg Me If You Need To Talk Or Ne Other Questions.. Katie*

2006-08-16 03:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥OnCloudNine9♥ 2 · 0 0

Ok, did he actually have sex with you? if not, then it's sexual assault basically (there's different degrees and such). Why are you taking this. Why don't you tell your parents and report him to the police. Otherwise you will be humiliated at school, people will think you are a $lut, because you are letting him do this and trust me he'll eventually show it, if he hasn't already. TELL YOUR PARENTS AND THE POLICE. Stop letting someone violate you like that. Go, right now, sit your parents down and tell them everything. Do NOT feel ashamed either...you did not ask for it, you did not want it. He forced it. Have them take you to the police station, and tell them everything, make sure you tell EVERYTHING........so they can get him before he ruins your life hun. Seriously.......He has no right to do that to you, be strong, stand up for yourself, and let the police handle him. But don't let him treat you that way.

2006-08-15 23:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by £i£-ßrAt 4 · 0 0

i'm 16 and yah it kinda is i hate when guys are like that guys try to feel up on meall the time to and don't let him come over anymore tell your parents and tell him if shows thoes things to anyone you have dirt on him and does he want to go to jail or get in big troubel i lost alot of guy friends with stuff like that to but i let them know that it's not right and if they still wana be your friend or in your case bf let him know his game is wack if it were me i'd take the camara and delet it or make your own copy to show your parents or something e0me or something k and try to dump him he's stupid

2006-08-16 01:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell your parents because that was sexual assault. If you're scared to tell them, tell them anyway. If they get mad at you blame it on him and tell them everything. They might talk to your boyfriends parents and stop all this madness. If he gets mad at you for doing this and then starts doing other things to you in other places then you should consult to the police or a counselor (school counselors only help if it involves the school community).

2006-08-15 23:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie 3 · 1 0

He didn't rape you he molested you. You should find the pics and tape and take them to the police before he does try something worse, like rape. I garuntee he'll never try no **** like that again. But if that was me, I would call my cousins and he'll get dealt with.

2006-08-16 05:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 2 · 0 0

It sounds like this is sexual assault. Talk to your parents or school counselor. Most likely you will be able to press charges, especially if you can get ahold of the pictures.

2006-08-15 23:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

AT ANY TIME DID YOU SAY STOP!!! OR SCREAM "NO!!!???
YES IT IS RAPE IF YOU SAY STOP OR NO AT ANYTIME. YOU DID NOT WANT HIM TO DO THIS??!!!
THAT IS RAPE!!!!
GO TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW!!! AND GO TO THE POLICE AND REPORT HIM!!!
WHY DO TEENS NOT REPORT THIS??? OR TELL THEIR PARENTS???
I WOULD HOPE MY 16YR WOULD TELL ME IF THIS HAPPENED TO HER.
ALSO, AS HER PARENT, I DONT ALLOW BOYS IN HER ROOM AT ALL, IF SHE WANTS TO STUDY WITH SOMEONE, IT HAS TO BE IN THE KITCHEN AT THE KITCHEN TABLE. BECAUSE OF THIS HAPPENING.
WHY DIDNT YOU SCREAM FOR YOUR MOM??? IM SURE SHE WOULD HAVE COME RUNNING AND KILLED THE KID!!!
DID YOU SEE THE CAMERA? HOW COULD HE USE THE CAMERA AND FORCE YOU TO HAVE SEX, FORCING IS YOU KICKING AND HITTING AND MOVING AROUND ALOT.

2006-08-16 00:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0 0

Its trime to grow up and tell your mother and father what is happening to you, This punk is basicaly rapeing you and your parents need to be aware of this so they can handle in legaly and keep him away from you.

2006-08-16 02:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0 0

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