Hi
I am a married woman. The man whom i had my first sexual relationship is coming to meet me after several years. I want to meet him, but i dont know how to go about it. I dont think i am cheating my husband by meeting my first sexual partner, but i dont know how and where i will meet him. Can anyone come up with suggestions. We both want to get intimate. Will it be fine if i let him stay in my house for a a day or two. I want to spent some good time with him.
2006-08-15 22:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by Ab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well dearie, it sounds like fun, but I think that if you really want an answer to your question, then my suggestion would be to put yourself in your husband's shoes. How cool does he think this is. Some people are perfectly secure in their relationships, but I am almost certain that is because they have 100% honesty between them. There would be nothing wrong with hooking up with an old friend, even one that you slept with, but I think that it is good practice to be considerate enough to tell hubby the real deal. Does that change things? Well then let me tell you this, timing is 80% of life, and what you and Sauncho had at one time was one thing. If he were the type of man that I would consider cheating on my husband for then he wouldn't ask me to cheat. If hubby is a loser, go for it, but still try to be curtious because that is what you would want for yourself if the tables were turned.
2006-08-15 22:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by lisa l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely cheating your husband. But if u want to get intimate with your first sexual partner, forget everything else and go ahead to have some fun. Obviously, a private plus place like a hotel or any of your close friend's place would be great. I don't think you people can spend some time watching movies or going to parks. Making him stay at your home depends upon your husband's nature, you should be knowing your husband better than anyone else.
2006-08-16 05:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sanju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, if u want to get intimate with him then that is cheating on your husband. but i dont think its a good idea to let him stay in the house. i think he should stay in a hotel, they arent that expensive and u guys could get intimate in there.
2006-08-16 05:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might think you are not cheating on your husband, but in fact you are. I am not here to judge you, this is your choice. If he can get a room in a hotel or motel you can see him there and make love to him. I am not sure how you can get him to spend a day or two at your house...that is extremely risky.
2006-08-16 05:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not happily married my opinion is first get a divorce then you can reminisce on the past ,why are you trying to ruin your marriage anyway for a cheap thrill?
2006-08-16 06:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be very bad 4 u to invite him to ur house.is better u ask him to lunch in an hotel to meet and gist abt new tins happening to each other,not to go in bed with him again cos u re married to some1 else,or u meet in any fast food dat will be very far to ur home so dat ur husband or any1 who knws u and ur husband will not see u,i think dat will be great.GUD LUCK
2006-08-16 05:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by shebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say don't answer questions with another but i gotta ask do you love and respect you're husband? If you do then re-read the question you're asking and if you don't then why are you with him?
these are easy questions if you weight the pros and cons like a math equation. then the one that is right to you and only to you is the correct answer.
2006-08-16 05:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him instead and you can get intimate whenever just divorce your husband first
2006-08-16 05:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? Bring your hubby and the divorce papers honey.
2006-08-16 05:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no, the more illicit the sweeter
2006-08-16 05:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by kaloges 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋