This is a difficult question to ask, without having to give a lot of details... But there's a girl, who lives nextdoor. Her boyfriend works with my boyfriend.. anyway, she got mad @ my boyfriend for calling her a *****, and she planted a "love letter" in his work vehicle. It was written to look like he was having an affair with some woman. It was written AS IF it were from this other woman. Please don't make me put all the details in, as to how I know he's not cheating... just accept that the note was faked and planted. What's the best way I can get revenge on her? And: what's the best way I could go about getting a handwriting sample from her, without being obvious??
2006-08-15 22:35:57 · 27 answers · asked by Mourningstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The answers I'm getting are really great - THANKS. Additional info: I'd NEVER have sex with her boyfriend!! Not for ANY amount of revenge!! He's repulsive to me! Ewwww!! :-)
2006-08-15 22:48:00 · update #1
LOL- the idea for the petition against Cruelty to Animals.. that's funny, because the reason my boyfriend called her a bytch was because she was being cruel to some kittens!
2006-08-15 22:52:25 · update #2
Also: this isn't the only thing she's done. This is just the thing that really angered me. Her boyfriend is likely to lose his job and be kicked out of his house for this. That's why I wanted proof of her handwriting. It's very distinctive writing.
2006-08-15 23:04:22 · update #3
No offense intended but you sound like a nice person. You do not sound capable of dealing with a person devious enough and mean enough as this other woman seems to be. I mean - you are asking for help and suggestions on Yahoo Answers. To me, this says you aren't in her league.
My suggestion is forget about getting revenge. You may be opening a can of worms that you aren't capable of handling. Usually these situations escalate out of control. I suggest that if you do anything at all, you confront this person directly with your suspicions and tell her not to do anything like this again. Hopefully even if she denies your allegation, she'll realize that you are wise to her and she'll back off and not pull anymore tricks.
2006-08-15 22:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritual but not religious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to ingnore her and move on from the situation. You will be showing her that she did not hurt you and your boyfriend. If she comes around, you and bf could laugh louder and smile a lot to show her that you are very happy, in catching her attention. That will get her more than anything.
If you really want something material, send him some flowers. Have the flower shop sign the card: Had a great time the other night and can't wait to do it again. Love, Trixie
2006-08-15 22:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it was fake and it didn't damge your relationship then you already got your revenge. She failed in her mission and her handwriting sample won't do you any good, unless of course you happen to know someone who specializes in handwriting analysis and even if you do what are you going to do with it? The best thing you can do with someone like this is honestly nothing. If you react to her games you are, in essence, playing them with her. How fun is it to set up a game of checkers and then sit there by yourself waiting for someone else to start playing with you? How often do you think you would do that if nobody showed up to play? She has set up the board, do you want to play with her or not? Figuring out she didn't phase you in the least is going to bother her a hec of a lot more than anything you could do to her in return and it also removes her motivation for trying to play another game. If you do something about this, she'll laugh cause she managed to get to you and then immediately start trying to figure out what to do to you next, then its your turn, then hers again. You do nothing and then what is her response? She says hmmm well that didn't work no point in messing with her she just can't be messed with and isn't that where you hope to be in the long run anyway?
2006-08-15 22:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get revenge on her would be to read the letter to her as if you were just sharing something between friends. Then, say "what kind of stupid idiot would write something like this? What kind of stupid ***** would think something as trivial as this could cause a problem in MY relationship?" Then toss it in the trash. (Get it out later, so you can have evidence of her handwriting, if you need it). Smile at her all the while and laugh it off completely. The best revenge is ALWAYS living well and throwing that in your enemy's face.
2006-08-15 22:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by noir 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge, the most apropriately vile thing to do to someone who wrongs you is to turn their behavior into their punishment. Seek revenge in a way that encourages them to continue being a loathesome creature rather than learn the error of their ways. If you must have your pound of flesh do it in a way that she'll never suspect who caused her misery but nothing that gives her a target she can take out her agressions on. The best revenge is to encourage her to continue to be a Demonic Bytch and perpetuate her cycle of misery.
Keep in mind this isn't the sort of behavior that will help you sleep at night when you're older.
2006-08-15 22:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you exact revenge on anyone, then you also become demonic.
So don't do it. The best way to deal with it is forgive and forget. Why poison yourself with negative energy; anytime you do that, you're letting the other person win.
If you learn to forgive, you become more people and are free of the demonic poison of hatred and revenge. Revenge causes you more harm than anyone else; it eats you from inside and kills you slowly.
Just try some meditation and visualize yourself in a happy state, impervious to all outside harm. You'll find you'll be a lot happier person.
2006-08-15 22:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know u're really mad@her but trust me she's not worth wasting precious time ova, time that can neva be regained. As for gettin her handwriting, Jus draw up a petition for people against cruelty to animals and ask for her signature and supporting statement as to why she is against cruelty to animals. She wont suspect a thing if u already have a couple of signatures there
2006-08-15 22:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by justhulice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was being cruel to the kittens, the best revenge would be to call the Humane Society. They will ask if there were any witnesses to this and your bf can be the witness since he;s the one who saw her.
P.S. I did this to a neighbor who was killing birds w/ a BB gun. They came and gave him $500 fine. It wasn't for revenge, it was for cruelty.
2006-08-15 22:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did this letter effect his job in some way? If you know the truth, that's he's not with anyone else but you..Why bother doing anything? Laughing in her face would be the best, cleanest thing you could do. Don't give her the satisfaction of a negative reaction.
2006-08-15 22:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get revenge is by NOT getting it! Let me explain...if you react to her viciousness...she will find something else to do to you or your boyfriend, then you will feel the need to seek more revenge, and on and on. The best way to deal with someone like her is to do nothing and act like it didn't bother you. Be happy and loving with your boyfriend so she sees she caused no problems with her "trick". Good Luck!
2006-08-15 22:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋