why when me and my boyfriend have sex dont i climax? he always does but i never do!
2006-08-15 22:24:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get him to stimulate your clitoris. Most women don't have an orgasm during penetrative intercourse, they need stimulation of the clitoris with the hand or tongue to make them orgasm.
Your clitoris is a small lump of flesh located at the front of your vulva, where the labia lips meet. Try masturbating it yourself so you can show your boyfriend what to do.
2006-08-15 23:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started having sex at 16 and never climaxed until I was about 25 (no, it was not continuous!) but have had no trouble since.
Relax and enjoy what you are getting. The practice can be fun and enjoyable too and the big "c" often gets in the way anyway.
2006-08-15 22:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! here is my address......:-) Listen sit down for this one, what you need to do is read some porno or watch some, then be around him in a flirty way that turns both of you on but don't have sex then wait until probably a day after then do every thing slow, i mean extremely slow (light touches, lingering kisses, lengthy fore play, and seductive dressing) and in a a cold environment (cuts back a mans speed of climax but does the opposite for women) then just be you know what i mean.......... Or you could just give me a call... :-)
2006-08-15 22:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women dont always climax during sex it needs a bit of clitoral stimulation then you might its quite natural not to climax for some women
2006-08-15 22:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by ward1703 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very different for women than men. Each woman is different. It takes time and effort for not only your partner but for you to figure out what it is that works for you, where your spot is, etc. Don't stress about it, just enjoy your sex life and explore. I know from experience that no matter how much you enjoy sex, you may not always reach climax everytime.
2006-08-15 22:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
every woman is different. some women climax very easily everytime they have sex, and some don't climax at all. it's all normal
2006-08-15 22:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by babycakes2444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously not doing it right!! Tell him what you like, and dont let him give up till he has made you climax too!
2006-08-15 22:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easier for a man than a woman to have a organism he just going to have to work hard to please you so both can have the pleasure of a climax.
2006-08-15 22:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres only a small percentage of women who can climax during penetration without clitoral stimulation - don't worry, you're not weird!
I suggest that you lay down, your boyfriend enters and then you can swap leg positions - he can put his legs on the outside of yours and you can stimulate yourself with your fingers. When you come he'll be able to feel every muscle spasm and it will send him crazy i promise!
2006-08-15 22:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him want turns up on n make him do it till you climax, if this doesn't help you'll have to find another way for him to make you climax, the mouth often works!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 22:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by LEGG$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋