What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend is calling you names and putting you down on a daily basis????The emotinal abuse i feel is far worse then the physical abuse because you can't take back words and they cuts through your soul like a knife!!!!!I am so sick of being called s!ut,whore,phycho,which i feel i am neither and him always saying you're not growed up yet and if i stays with you much longer i will have bad nerves when in fact he is the one that is making me sick all the time!!!!!!I have that much pains in my chest from the stress i am under that i can't ever sleep at night.........if i don't leave i am soon gonna be in a early grave anyways and that wouldn't be good since i have 2 smalle children!!!!I am just at the end of me rope and don't know what to do or where to turn can someone please give me some advice or if you have ever been in a similar situation please tell me how to get out before it's too late!!!!!
2006-08-15 22:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by Baybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its simple, take ur 2 children and Leave him, cause u deserve better than him and to be treated like a princess
2006-08-15 22:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE leave him. My ex did the SAME thing. I always found myself withing he would just hit me instead because his words were the harshest I have ever heard. Everyone I work with and everyone I've dated previously only said nice things but the most recent ex was terrible. At the beginning he was all in love and telling me about how one day he was going to make me his wife and then when time went by I culdn't dress right and if I said hi to another man I was cheating and that's apparently whi I was a **** and dressing to turn other men on when I'd acually dress nice for our date. It is terrible but my mom raised 3 kids alone with just the help of her parents and me when I got older so be strong, get out of it before he hurts the children. I'm sorry this is so difficult. You may want to call a hotline in your area that helps verbally abused women. Ask your doctor about it. Good luck, you deserve better it took me too long to realize that myself.
2006-08-15 22:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tipical situation with alot of women, I have had four abusive relationships with husbands and I was lucky to not have kids with them. If you can afford to get out on your own or have the backing ohelp from your family and friends then get . Men can be very controlling and like to keep you thinking that you need them. They like to play with your mind and get you to think that you are not good enough but we are. Just get the help from where ever you can, Agencies etc. and get you and your kids out of there and get him into court for support that you will need for his kids. You might find that you will get along bette if you are not together. I made friends with two of my husbands and we still care for each other, one has passed since but it was worth leaving while we stll had some feelings for each other instead of waiting til we hated. It's hard to go it alone but if you have anyone willing to help you out then do yourself and your kids a favour and start freash. Your kids only learn from what they see anhear and you don't want them learning to do this to others when they get into relationships, Right.
2006-08-17 02:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call A local church and see if they can help you in getting started. You can also get information from your local police. The only thing I can say is know your feelings and go with the best interest of the little ones. Some womens shelters are very good to your best interests.
2006-08-15 22:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by status quo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question. Leave him. If he really cared for you he wouldn't treat you this way. Unless you really like being treated that way, or you have low self esteem and possibly feel you deserve to be called those names. You are probably too afraid to leave him because you might feel that you won't meet another guy. Guess what? You will. And someone who might make you happy instead of miserable. This guy doesn't seem to want you in his life, or love you. Leave him and see how fast your life changes and for the better.
2006-08-15 22:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by grrandram 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My dear, there is not point in making this question. YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY DUMP THAT JERK!
How can you stay with smb like this. You should improve your self-esteem and you can not do this if you stay with him.
Dump him and do not regret it!
Love and relationships are to make people happy, not to take them to an early grave!
darling, you deserve much better. You deserve a man who respects and loves you, and who treats you like the special girl that you are.
Think about your children. You can not make them happy, if you are not happy yourself!
Don't think it twice, just dump him. You'll be happy, believe me!
Wish you the best of luck!
2006-08-15 22:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now! There are too many people in this world who are looking for nice women like you to put up with any type of abuse. Good luck!
2006-08-15 22:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun, get out of the relationship quick. You know urself very well. If your needy and emotional and he calls u names, time for u to evaluate yourself and change if needed.
But if he is a jacka$$ and is abusing you for his own needs becaus ehe isn't satisfied, best that u sit and iron things out, and make a decision to walk out. You wont be happy in the long run.
Good luck.
2006-08-15 22:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave and save your kids' lives by taking them away from verbally abusive people and introduce them to better people. Kids won't have a good life living with such a person.
2006-08-15 22:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋