What do you do when?

Question

What do you do when both you and your husband/wife have the same day off?
Do you make it special and do something together or do you go your seperate ways for the day and reconnect at night?
We're 1/2 and 1/2. We sometimes do stuff together, sometimes apart.
It doesn't bother me to let him do his thing. Does it bother you?

Answer 1

Well the only time i see my fiance is when he is on military leave..so therefore I take off work..and we go places vist people and do things together.Also if he chooses to stay at his cousins for a night..i dont tag along...their family and need time together..so i spend time with my family or best friend or even his mother and sisters.

Answer 2

Everyone needs thier own little space/time to do what they want. It gives the feeling of freedom, independance and security no matter how little that time or task might be. It is good for a relationship not to feel obliged or sufocated that it becomes A MISERY...It is great when you are both happy and fine with what the other one is doing and also spend some of the time together by choice and not a mandate.

Answer 3

No this doesn't bother me. My hubby and I are both off on the weekends so we go to the beach and surf together during the day and go to dinner/movie at night. On some weekends, we both go out w/ our friends during the day and see each other at night. We both like to have our own space to do our own thing.

Answer 4

I would love to say it would not bother me but its because , I would not get the same as I give , thats why I have to say you should try to do things together, as often as you can, as well as having some time for your own interests is the way to go.

Answer 5

Na not at all. I have found that if we spend to much time together we start to get nippy with each other. So we make time for each other also about half the time.

Answer 6

Well you need to decide with your husband and decide what do you do spend most time alone or with husband and if it is alone make it really special or unless you spend more time together it's nice to have some time alone. so that's a question you need to decide. sorry i wasn't much help.*

Answer 7

It depends on what we have to get done...I think for most people it's 1/2 and 1/2. If you have kids, you'll always be running...in circles...

Answer 8

sure we will try to go a vacation together and enjoyed our love..


LEBANON

our beauty Lebanon...





American administration, ordered
and the hand of the Zionism , moved to kill..
bombard that safety country ..
bombard our lovely Lebanon..
children dead , and killed in their houses..
under the building...
destroyed every thing,,
the houses, the buildings, and even the animals and the trees..
killed all young children and all women ..
and who has a chance to still Alfie , also was as a dead ..
because now he lost all dearest in his life..
women became widows ..
children also became orphans..
and the country destroyed...
all that was because of the desire of the American administration..
and the Zionism, whom they love to see the blood..
the Arabian blood ...
but Lebanon never to kneel down..
and never to be defeated..
never and never ..
and we are going to build our country again..


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By hazem02


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yours
hazem

Answer 9

i would love to spend the day off together if it were possible for both of us to have a day off, which is not.

We run our own bar.

Answer 10

no. you want to do some things by yourself too, you need it to break the boredom of doing the same things with the same person again and again