actually ...all the time i want to b with him, i want all his care ,spport,love..if i can't... i get depressed badly and start feeling insecure. even sometimes i feel like i really need a doctor . is there any problem with me??
plz help............
2006-08-15 21:34:04 · 8 answers · asked by monica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes Monica you have a problem, You are in LOVE... But you are in that kind of love you know like teenagers, when they face their first crush on some girl, so he starts to think of her all the time and he thinks he cant live with out her and if she didn't answer him or didn't talk to him then he will be depressed and all the feelings that u r facing SOO what to do ?? realize dear Monica that you are old enough to get over this emotions, am not say its wrong no its good and great but if we don't know how to deal with it and control it then it will lead our lives to bad conditions even worse than just depression ... OK dear Love you husband and love him very much he is your man after all and show him how much you love him in every way you know but don't let him see how week you with out him... you r strong enough to get over such as emotions
2006-08-15 23:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you try doing something without him on purpose. make yourself. it is not healthy to not want to be away from him no matter how much you love him. It is understandable that you need his affection and attention and support, but do you provide any back to him? Do you give anything to yourself? Why don't you get together with some friends and go out once or twice a week to a movie, and dinner. Or how about you take a class on something you like that is not to expensive and local. take a yoga class or photography, or cooking. This will make you feel like you are in control of when you are not spending time with him and make you more comfortable with it. You need to me more comfortable with you. who you are. Everyone has some neediness in them, but they should also need themselves. If you get so depressed that you feel like you need help, then go get it. pronto! good luck
2006-08-16 04:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out the source of your problems. If you can't do it alone, seek the help of a therapist. This doesn't sound normal and if you do nothing about it, it will drive the person you love the most away...your husband.
2006-08-16 04:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. I would seek out professional help.. could be a mixture of depression and co-dependency issues.. It's OK to love someone that much, but you should also be able to handle being away from that person for a short time.
2006-08-16 04:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that life exists beyond of the realm of your husband. It is unhealthy to expect to get all your needs met by one person.
Seek professional help. It's okay to admit that you need it.
Good luck.
2006-08-16 04:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You're depressed. Get some therapy.
2006-08-16 04:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some professional help with that.
2006-08-16 04:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY A DIAMOND WEAR IT ON FRIDAYMORNING TO GET GOOD RESULTS
2006-08-16 11:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by chander c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋