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2006-08-15 21:21:54 · 39 answers · asked by gettoolow 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

If it is so..wrong why do they insist on sleeping around or with another man. Why does it make it wrong.. in regaurds to my other question I posted..

2006-08-15 21:22:46 · update #1

so..how can the man supplying the sex be held responsible.. for that womans actions..?

2006-08-15 21:27:12 · update #2

39 answers

maybe cuz they can't get satisfied with their husbands and need 2 have sex... or maybe they're adventures.... who knows? women r just like UFO, weird....

2006-08-15 21:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by high_voltage_ir 2 · 0 0

Not all do, some of us take our partnerships very seriously. And your Question should be "Why do some married people sleep around"? The answer to that question could be many. For my experience I'd say that most get caught up in a fantasy of marriage without being actually in love to the prospective and go through with it anyhow. Only to get maybe 1-2yrs into the wedlock and not be happy because of the faults of the partner, then they go for the options, start flirtin', have a lil cheat(cause hey it ain't their fault), somebody new makes feel so special, get caught, make excuses, life decends into total choas til the big "D" happens. Could all have been averted with a bit more thought b4 the married bit. Taking Marriage Seriously!

2006-08-15 21:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ms CMP5260 3 · 0 1

Why do married men sleep around? Same difference don't you think? Women are missing something emotional in their marriage and looking for it in another man when they have an affair. Women put love and sex together so that is why they will withdrawl from their partner when they are having an affiar. On occasion they will have an affair, like men do, just for the thrill of it and doing something different but most of the time their heart is involved.

2006-08-15 23:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Because man, they're ususally so screwed or born in to difficult situations psychologically and don't understand the dynamics of a sucessful relationship like God which is the thing that keeps marriages together as it is a spiritual foundation. They insist on sleeping with other men because they are curious and unhapy with themselves, their relationships and the outcome of their life, and people who chose to contribute to that ususally don't know their own value. I understand sex, but why with someone who's in a relationship or marriage, that is hurtful to their partner. You probably have to have been tested really hard in life to find a sense of enjoyment with that and even then I belive teh most evil people in life probably had the highest capacity for good.

2006-08-15 21:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Its wrong because marriage is to be with that person and only them.
In my opinion, people usually cheat for these reasons...
1. They can't get sex from their partner
2. They no longer find their partner attractive.
3. They need an emotional connection their partner isn't giving them.
4. They aren't satisfied with their partners and they need something new and spontaneous.
5. They gave into temptation at a weak moment.
6. They are trying to get revenge on a partner.

2006-08-15 21:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

women are actually the worst for being unfaithful. I don't know any girlfriend who is 100% faithful to her partner. We are much more cunnning and deceitful. Women love to be chased and feel like they are attractive. The thrill of having an affair can be tremendous, but doesn't last. Being faithful is an unrealistic notion in this day and age. Poeple hurt too much inside to do theright thing most of the time. That is why the thought of marraige makes me feel sick. I think, 'suckers!'

2006-08-15 21:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by TotalBitch 3 · 2 1

They sleep around because they are not happy in there relationship for whatever reason. Bored, not enough attention, sex not good enough. It makes it wrong cause marrage needs work, to stay together for a lot of yrs. Needs to be kept fresh and needs communication. Problems can be worked out, but it takes work, some women or men choose the easy way out by cheating.

2006-08-15 21:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by nypokerplayer 4 · 1 1

They do it for many reasons and none of them good. The excusesare endless.Instead of using their energy in this way if they put it all on their marrige they would be better off.This is something I would never do as I wouldnt want it done to me. Just stay single if you want to sleep around and remember thgeres always two sides to those excuses shes giving you!

2006-08-15 21:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it isnt just women that sleep around there are just as many men or probly a little more ... it is human nature to want to reproduce and to do this we have to have sex so sometimes the urge is to great to ignore... it may be wrong in societies eyes but if it can be done without the other party finding out then i have no problem with it

:)

2006-08-15 21:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by aussie s 3 · 1 2

If both partners are ok with it, I don't see any problem. Sex is a biological function. I know lots of couples who have "open" relationships, go to swinger clubs, etc. and I don't think anything less of them.

Variety is the spice of life.

2006-08-15 21:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Women think differently from men . Sleeping with another man, sleeping with another woman --- it comes naturally to them; they see nothing wrong with it, they're fluid on everything.

2006-08-15 21:32:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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