Are you or have you ever been in an abusive relationship? If you have been...how did you get out of it?
2006-08-15 21:19:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I was able to escape one just barely with my life. I just wondered if there was anyone else that went through that kind of hell on here. God Bless.
2006-08-15 21:55:37 · update #1
I became pregnant, and I didnt want to spend my life in jail, the way I figured since he beat me he'd beat the baby and I'd have to kill him so I left for my son.
2006-08-15 21:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was for 10 years. He was so sweet when we were friends, but when we became intimate and got married, he treated me like he hated me. Fighting back only made it worse. I could have no friends, and could go no where except work and the store, and he timed that.
When I had finally had enough, he was cheating on me as well, left to go out with friends on a Sat. and did not come back until Monday night when it was time for me to go to work. I kicked his butt out, and that time he stayed out for good. I hurt a long time thinking everything was my fault, but in the end I was so much better off, and so were our kids.
Best of luck to you, and may God bless you in whatever you do.
2006-08-15 22:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yh i have an it aint pretty i got out of it cos i fell pregnant and he was stil abusive and i jus thought i cant do this anymore, made him leave and locked the door yh i had a broken window etc but i called the police n he eventually gave up he wasnt at the birth but he now sees his baby hes a gd dad but he was a crap bf, u jus gotta get away try find some1 to stay wit and let him kno its over for gd dont go bk to him cos he will feel that he has more power over u and that he can pyhsically and mentally abuse u no matter how many times he says i love u or il change he wont they never do so do it for u and if uv got children then def do it for them it will mentally scar them to c there mum/dad bein bashed about. gd luck x
2006-08-15 21:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cancelled my wedding at short notice because of an abusive relationship.
He never got the chance to hit me, I was out of there the moment I realized it was heading that way.
The best thing I've ever done in my whole life, just wish I'd done it sooner!
2006-08-16 00:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally many more women are physically abused. But it works both ways.
It depends on the couple and if the relationship is mutually supportive. Some women mentally and, yes, even physically abuse their male partners.
2006-08-15 22:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by yadayada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I divorced him.
2006-08-16 12:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋