My husband is looking up women in my area to chat with even though I've told him it hurts my feelings. He says he does it out of bordom. Do you think there's more to it?
2006-08-15 20:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Asia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anyone who "looks up women out of boredom" is doing so much more. It's hurtful and disrepectful, dear. The best thing you can do at this point is reevaluate your marriage and you both seek counseling. Also, work on your self esteem as well. If he refuses to go and work things out, then you know what you have to do. There's no excuse for his tawdry behavior and either he accepts responsibility for his actions, or you need to move on.
2006-08-15 21:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He should stop just because he knows it hurts your feelings. Just so you know...which this isn't always the case, but my best friends husband was doing the same thing....you know out of boredom...well let's just say she followed him one day when he was trying to hook up with one of the girls he had been chatting with.
2006-08-16 07:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there's more to it. Why does he feel so bored in the marriage that he feels compelled to do something like this? You need to find out what that reason is and fix it because right now he's looking outside of your marriage for that "fun".
2006-08-16 04:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl he just told you he does it out of boredom. Yes there is more to it. You have the chance to fix it. Get sexy and do things with him. He is bored. Fix it. He has already told you. Now fix it. Together.
2006-08-16 04:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that'd hurt. Do something about it. Try enticing him away from the computer...make him think about you instead, darling. Shake him up, wake him up to the good thing that he has.
He's given you an early warning sign...better do something about it now.
2006-08-16 04:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice.. your ..husband.. is either cheating all ready.. or thinking about it.. some things to look for.. random phone calls.. less in sex drive with you.. hmm I think you know this..
if you want to know more..just ask
2006-08-16 04:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by gettoolow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. You usually don't smell smoke without fire.
2006-08-16 06:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
somthing isnt right fo him to do that . in my opion?
2006-08-16 04:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably...
2006-08-16 04:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey call me
2006-08-16 04:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by *ICE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋