i was dateing this girl and every thing was going great then i found out i love her and i told her and she said she felt the same way. 3 months later it turns out she doesnt love me and i never been hurt so bad it the worst pain i had ever and i had cancer 2 times! i havent ate anything for a day and a half cuz when i try 2 i thow it up i have no clue wat 2 do 2 move on with my life plz some 1 help me!!
2006-08-15 20:38:18 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.PERU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take any pressure or expectations off yourself to get over it quickly.
Take care of yourself. Get adequate rest, eat right and get some exercise.
Nurture yourself. Give yourself permission to relax, take it easy, and do whatever makes you feel better - such as taking walks, naps; listening to music; reading; or watching movies.
Plan pleasurable activities with friends or family ahead of time (especially on weekends) to keep you busy and get your mind off the loss.
Talk to your doctor about possibly taking medication if you're having trouble sleeping, or if you're experiencing anxiety or depression. Or discuss the options of herbal supplements such as St. John's wort (for depression) or kava kava (for anxiety).
Get a journal and write down what you have learned from the relationship about yourself, relationships and life.
Over time, the feelings will become less intense and you will be able to think about the relationship without it being so painful.
2006-08-15 20:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think cuz im like that girl tech.. cuz im dating this guy wit cancer.. and im ttly in love wit him .. and the thing is if you realli love some one it has to hurt .. but u need to be able to undstand u can get over it . and anyways if u love someone that much u shuld be able to let go , knowing that she mite find some one better.. but maybe in the end she will realize her best companion is u ..
the pain of losing a loved one is like ice cream, you need to enjoy is as it lasts before it melts away
well i hope u find the answer lol and the time it takes to get over ur prob can be for ever but u cant let it get to u ~ good luck~ lol
2006-08-15 20:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by belle k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by fast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts..very true but u dont stop there..u have to be strong enough for yourself to stand it...pull yourself together, dont force yourself to get over it becuase it wont be no use, it will just put too much pressure on yourself and your sanity...take it one day at a time...evaluate the things that can help u keep on your toes and happy (other than 'her')..u have to accept too that she's out of your life and your life now is just "u"... so make the most of it and live it ..acceptance of what happened is important..let go of your past with her...focus on yourself :) you'll never know it might take just a little time to get over it than u thought:) ...accept..let go...move on..be happy :)
2006-08-15 21:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time time time is all it's going to take.You'll get over it eventually right now your going to feel the wrost pain and yoour gonna a feel liek it'ds never going to go away but it will.Untill than just do things to keep your mind off of her.Hang out with your friends or go to the mall or sometthing just dopn't think about you'll get over it just let time run it's course.GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-15 20:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep busy, staying cooped up in your home is not going to help. You will get over it and eventually even laugh at this. I know it doesnt sound like it now but you will.
2006-08-15 20:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take months, but you should already know that if your old enough to have had cancer twice!
2006-08-15 20:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Einsteininium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to "i will survive"... it will help you!
2006-08-15 20:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by olga z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋