K so in college most of the guys like talk to me... even on messenger i chat with only guys... but i hav only two girl friends and like a dozen guy friends. see i aint complaining but i feel so mad coz theres this huge girls group n all gals usually hang out together n i always feel left out. i aint ugly or fat but i dont know whats wrong wit me.... why cant i be friends with girls?
2006-08-15 20:19:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't hate you and i am a girl. If those girls don't like you just the way you are or are jealous, then you have no need to worry about hanging out with them. Besides, it's a good thing to have lots of guy friends.
P.S. You are better of without those girls",)
2006-08-15 20:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by angel 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same thing with me.
I studied at an all-girl school, and I have a tight group of girl friends, 10 of us actually, but when I started college, I had trouble making girl friends, and I was scared of guys coz from grade school to highschool, I never had any guy friends..
But since no girls seem friendly enough with me, I decided to hang out with the guys who were trying to befriend me, and so it started that all college friends are guy friends.
And from what I "investigated" and "learned".. it's not our fault.
Someone said about you being gorgeous.
Someone said that to me too, that girls probably see me, us, as rivals and so they don't want to be friends with us. And seeing us hang out with a lot of guys, they might be thinking, like some of the comments here, that we are bitches.
I know some girls who have the same problem and I end up being friends with them. But they so much closer with their guy friends and me too, so we don't hang out a lot.
I just happy that I still see my girl friends if we not too busy (school and work, we went to different colleges) But now I moved to another country..
college drama all over again!!!
2006-08-16 03:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by __@__ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very hard to answer because one would really have to know you.. Are you a tom boy? Do you prefer to be around the men then the women. Is it a vibe you give off to other women? I see nothing wrong with having a lot of guys friends, but its a completely different relationship then with a girl. I would tell you to try harder with a girl to be friends with including being supportive, and available. With guys, yeah you really don't need to do that.. just have to be one of the guys.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-16 03:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel more comfortable with boys because you don't have to compete with them. Girls you either have to out-dress, outsmart, or even outwit, to do anything. I have more guy friends because they don't lie as much and tend to tell you the truth better than girls. You can go out with a couple of guys and not feel self conscious. Don't be upset about not having enough girlfriends because sometimes they are overrated!
2006-08-16 03:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had more guy friends, they are so easy to hang out with, the other girls just think you are a S**t, but you're not, they're just jealous. Don't worry about it, when you meet a nice person then it doesn't matter if they r a guy or girl to be their friend.
2006-08-16 03:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't always get along well with women, and I find that having guy friends can be lots of fun as long as they aren't constantly trying to "do" you. Those other girls may be bitches, or you might be coming across like a *****...is that possible? Otherwise, don't worry about it.
2006-08-16 03:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you relate to guys better than you do to girls. Theres nothin wrong with you. Just try and find stuff to talk to girls about. Like shopping, guys and clothes.
2006-08-16 03:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really try to be friends with women? Are you abig flirt? Could be simple jealousy going on. Be honest with youself,what have you done to actually be a friend to a woman?
2006-08-16 04:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even I had same problem in my last school but I also had many gal frenz and they didnt hate me.One did coz she was jealous.
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2006-08-16 07:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by cute_preeti4u2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also have many guy friends than gals. i find guys to be more open and stright foward. many girls are jelous and shrewd. you will not find that in a guy. guys tend to be more open. they will tell you how they feel to your face. but most girls just keep their feelings inside and play games on you. thats why i find it easier to be friends with guys that gals.maybe thats why you have more guy friends. dont worry, its not you, its them.
2006-08-16 03:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋