my parests are searching, some of hometown gilrs of our relatives, and some girls avialable in our city, guwahati where we have been groing, i cannt take decision to whom i sould marry, one is less educated but from our relatiave but othr educated but not relatiave, which one is better, in the time to come, more faihtful, etc. what type of age is good more difference or less.
2006-08-15 20:11:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HUH?
2006-08-15 20:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Naz, You should go for an educated girl even if she is not ref by your relatives. God forbid but in case of any mishap she will be able to sustain herself atleast.
Moreover the difference between you and your would be wife should not be more than 4 years as a bigger difference can lead to intellectual and behavioural differences which can cause rift in your married life.
Last but not the least.. Assess yourself before assessing your would be spouse... Think do you really deserve her as in our Culture girls generally marry whom their parents ask them to but a bigger social or fiancial gap between the familes make their lives hell and could lead to difficult situation.
2006-08-16 04:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one who is not ur relative
age for a guy 2 get married is 24 to 26yrs and
between girl and a boy age diffrences shold be 3 to 5 yrs
2006-08-17 02:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what is your education level. I think better to go with first who is less educated & relative. You will get better support from your family & relative. In marriage education is secondary suitability in all respect & who fit more in family is better
2006-08-16 05:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guesss u shld go 4 d more educated one.but stl u shud like her.don force urself 2 marry her.less diff of age shud b der b/w d 2 of u.hope u find d rite gal n ur maarrige works
2006-08-16 06:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by crazygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are either of these women interested in marrying you? Does either one love you?
Choose the good horse to plow your field...hehe...just kidding! lol sorry, I know youre probably very serious about choosing a good wife. Try to get to know each one...hmm...maybe find out if youre compatible more with one than the other. Good luck ;)
2006-08-16 03:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand your culture, but the thing is u should look in your heart and find what it is you want you have to live with this decision for the rest of your life ask God to help you.
2006-08-16 03:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Debra O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai,
get an educated but less than yours,
get a partner of lesser age than your but not more than 4 yrs and i say age doesnt matter *** i have been married to a 1.5 yr elder
2006-08-16 03:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by raghu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r supposed to marry a girl who is compatible to u. education is not the only criteria for marriage, there are other measures on which can decide to marry---------nature, family background, respect to relations n internal beauty.
2006-08-16 03:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by geet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this just between 2 girls, one educated, one not? Do you feel 'anything' spiritual or sexual between you and one of these girls? If so choose her
2006-08-16 03:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you have posed your question I don't think you are ready for marriage. You don't seem matured enough.
2006-08-16 04:06:31 · answer #11 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋