last night i caught my husband in bed with his dad. i canfronted him about it calmly today and he told me that he wanted to try a new experience with someone he knows very well, and that he knows his father better than anyone. then i found something that looked and smelled like cottage cheese in his underware. what in the world would cottage cheese be doing there. i really need some advice on this one. HELP!!!! i love him so much and he told me that he liked the experience he had and would like to do it with another man, he wont tell me exactly what him and his father did, but he said he liked it and wont stop. i think that is grose but i am just puzzled over the cottage cheese, need advice please!
2006-08-15 19:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by im so yummy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
isn't a wife related to a husband after they are married?
YOUR COMMITING INCEST TOO!!!!!!
LMAO
2006-08-15 19:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This seems like a very serious situation, and you might need professional help to deal with this. Obviously, the relationship between he and his dad is wrong and unhealthy. You need to seriously talk to him and tell him that you need to know exactly what is going on.... another concern is that he said he wanted to do "it" with another man! He is pretty much telling you he wants to cheat on you with another man.... He could have some sort of distorted idea of what a father/son relationship could be, as his dad might have been taking advantage of him sexually for a long time. There are many underlining issues to this situation.
You should stop having any type of sexual contact with him because this cottage cheese that you describe could be a serious health concern, and you do not want to contract any infection/virus! I think you should separate from him and seek professional advice. You should also get checked for any sexually transmitted dieases. Hopefully, you do not have any children with this man.
Good luck- remember to stay strong!
2006-08-15 20:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love him. but that doesn't mean you're required to put up with his offbeat desires. go somewhere alone, think about what it is you don't like about the whole picture (i'd tell you, but i'm not you). head back and confront the situation head on by making an ultimatum. you should know your husband enough to read his body language before he even speaks. if he's not visibly abiding by your wish, let him go. he can say ANYTHING. you can usually figure out the truth via his body language, then actions afterwards. "words are empty". don't accept this crap!!
2006-08-15 20:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jay H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when people take these little stories so serious. Well, an hour ago, you were a husband who's wife went crazy with the farm animals, and now, your the wife who's husband went crazy with his dad. Kid, get off the internet, I'm so sick and tired of this crap. Kids making crap up just to get attention. Grow up!!
2006-08-15 20:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you having fun yet? putting this crap on here some of us like having Q&A for entertaining but not crap like this I would really appreciate if you found somewhere else to make up this garbage at. I looked and some time you say my wife and sometimes you say my husband your questions are just a bunch of crap.
2006-08-15 20:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the Fu**!!!!! Are you for real, or are you playing us! That is friggin' sick, man! I'm just sitting here bothered over the whole thing. Get a divorce, that $hit is disgusting! I'd kick my dad's *** if I found out he wanted to get it on. Disgusting!
2006-08-15 20:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by jokerscard692000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats better to have a boy or girl?
2017-02-22 02:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evidentially, you are ok with it because he would have been put out with his dad and I would have been down on 2nd and Harvey at the local county courthouse FILING for a divorce!
That is some sick S**t!
2006-08-15 19:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really messed up. You should get him some help.
2006-08-17 08:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by gamelover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's one thing to be bisexual but with his own dad that's not right did you actually catch them doing something or just in bed together?
2006-08-15 19:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋