he keeps on saying how much he wants to make out with me. what does this mean? and he has been all akward around me but around my friends he acts so dorky and fun is there sumthin wrong with me or does he not love me?
2006-08-15 19:33:47 · 14 answers · asked by alyssa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well its either that he dosent infact love you, or that he has become complacent in the relationship and dosent feel like he needs to say it all the time anymore. No matter what it is, there is nothing wrong with you. You should just tell him that you need to hear it more. If he dosent turn it around then you know "he's just not that into you"......
2006-08-15 19:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship goes through certain phases. We all know that at first meeting, passion is ever present. That is later replaced by complacency. It is difficult for many of us to judge his motives; nevertheless, if he behaving in manners not becoming of his usual self (like SUDDEN changes) then it may be behaviors manifested out of guilt. I will not say whether he is cheating on you but it does sound like he is uncomfortable in your presence. It is only fair to you to find out the truth. He may be innocent and if he isn't it may take some time for him to confess or for you to put the pieces of the puzzles together. I strongly believe that if people truly love you, they show it, leaving no room for doubt. Although it is important for you to hear those four letter words, I think you may want to focus on his behavior and actions around you. For instance, is he affectionate, giving, intimate, etc?
2006-08-15 19:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to dump him and get a new guy. But seriously, you should talk to him and get him to say what he thinks before you actually decide what to do. If he ain't serious about the relationship, then maybe it's time the two of you move on in seperate ways.
2006-08-15 19:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tsu-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing games with you. I don't think anything is wrong with you... but he probably doesn't know what he wants. I say you talk to him and let him know how you feel and what you have been noticing... if he doesn't give you a straight answer or is willing to start improving his behavior... tell him it's over! You don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you and appreciate you!
Good Luck!
2006-08-15 19:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, how old are you first of all? your b/f could be looking for a way to just have sex if he's a teenager..... a boy will say just about anything to have sex with a girl...and a girl will do just about anything to be loved by a boy.... you have got to be old enough to know the diference.... Usually your first instinct is the right one.... Saying you love some one, doesn't amy anything...Showing someone you love them means something...Learn to realize the difference.... Set standards for yourself, and what you expect from a man .... you set the rules and if he loves you, he will respect them.....
2006-08-15 19:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by wva_butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answerer. This guy seems like he's immature, and every girl deserves better. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am positive you will find your "soulmate" in time. Take your time, it sounds like you're young - enjoy your teenage years.
2006-08-15 19:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by c.grinnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is more interested in making out with you than being with you. Sounds like it is time to look for another boyfriend. Sorry. Best of luck.
2006-08-15 19:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dioes not respect you in front of your friend the best thing he will use you and dumped you so the best thing to do call your relationship off and find a better person coz they his alot of stars in the universe.
2006-08-15 19:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got 10 bucks says your boyfriend doesn't know what love is.
2006-08-15 19:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a seperation. your relationship is probably moving forward so your at the end of the *honeymoon stage* as many call it... try talking with him and ask him whats up. if he gets all moody and defensive then its best you defently try a seperation
2006-08-15 19:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋