I don't understand how i can have feelings for someone that has treated me wrong in a little amount of time.I need to stay out of this bad relationship. I'm going to this time i just need some advice.
2006-08-15 18:47:35 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all you have to do is look in your life see what's really going on . he loves you but he hits you , he loves you but he puts down your self esteem, he a good dad but he hits you in front of the kids or family members. you have to take time to see what you have been throw. and tell your self all day long that you deserve better, in you life. that you are someone who deserve to be treated with respect and love, and not violence.
take care chris i hope you don't take him back this time. there is some one who's out there for you. but right now you need to heal yourself.
love jess,
2006-08-15 19:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by JESS, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to the "red flags". If something bothers you or doesn't seem right in a relationship, pay attention to your feelings!!! I'd say 95% of the time, you will be right about your instincts.
No offense to women, but they sometimes have a way of "sugar coating" problems. If it's a bad relationship, GET OUT....your feelings will fade in time and you will look back and thank yourself.
2006-08-15 18:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incidentally bad relationships often times thrive on the victim, that is the party being treated badly's willingness to continue being pushed around. so its a good start that you have made up your mind to get out. one way to further strenghten yourself is by building yourself esteem. you must keep telling yourself that you are a beautiful person, unique and with lots of good things to offer to the right man, one who will recognise that. when you keep telling yourself and eventually believe it, you will takecare of yourself and cherish and guard your person as you would a precious stone thats beautiful and priceless, worthy of royalty and not for swines cos they wouldn't know what to do with it except roll it about in mud and slime! Go girl! You'll be fine!
2006-08-15 19:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mofemo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well soon as you know its bad to the point where it aint gonna get any better then leave if it can be fixed its a two person thing you cant be the only one trying or you end up bieng more hurt remember it takes two if it cant be fixed just go you will find yourself unhappy for a few days then feel better off without him
2006-08-15 18:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go grl! All you need to do is just avoid him and tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore because he doesn't know how to treat you...and if he doesn't listen threaten that him,tell him that you'll get some1 to kick his a** or call the police.GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-15 19:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need it stay away a lot of good men are out looking for good woman that will be good to you you told me he is bad news so you did it so stay set on your thinking he's bad save your self good luck to you
2006-08-15 19:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you stay out of a bad relationship? DON'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP!
2006-08-15 18:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop and think...What is your life worth? Are you meant to be happy or miserable? Do expect to be respected body, mind and soul? No one is meant to be mistreated and life is not meant to spent abused by no one. If have to figure out what you are worth.........
2006-08-15 19:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading the book "10 stupid things women do to mess up their lives", it will help
2006-08-15 18:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get.out.of.the.relationship! girl you deserve so much better! there is a great guy out there 4 you.......promise!
2006-08-15 18:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by KeLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋