Like what would happen if you very shy all the time. I personal never see no one very shy i don t know ya did. Can shy be good or bad. I would say both. But i think that if you too shy you won t survive. people that too shy need to take medication believe me it helps becuase i on it.
2006-08-15 18:46:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
sorry, im too shy to answer this one...can i have some of that "medication"?
2006-08-15 18:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by noble serf 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Shy does not last long,
don't give it power over you.
fear, or apprehension sometimes can be good, so dont consider it a deffect,
consider that shy, is an emotion a group of thoughts and opinions, a learning process,
if it is real serious, as to take medication, and that helps than that is the good, news, and maybe you can continue to share that info with others who are shy or think they are "too shy"
IT IS NOT AN ATTITUDE THAT MAKES YOU DO BAD THINGS, SO IT IS NOT BAD,
when you learn to accept yourself, and know that what you are is a unique fantastic human being, different from any other, and for some to know you would be a blessing as you may have knowledge or just a presence about you that makes them very comfortable, even attracted to you and even admire you..
then you will recognize your own value, which is great, and then you can move forward, and in time be less shy, and only be shy, in areas where you need to approach slowly,
use it to your advantage, as your "guardian angel" ANY way you need to, just know it is not bad, or anyting to be ashamed of,
on the contrary, it could be the gift, the virtue of yourself you have not discovered,
2006-08-16 01:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have always been shy to the point of being extremely uncomfortable around others. I have what is called social anxiety and yes I take medications so I can be around others and almost feel okay. So to answer your question correctly I would have to be a psychiatrist but I believe you could survive but not live a normal healthy life and truly be able to say that you are happy. Life would be lonely because you would rather be alone than to suffer trying to interact with the human race.
2006-08-16 02:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been really shy for the biggest part of my life so far, and it has affected me in a negative way...people have to be extremely patient and perseverent with shy people and most people do not take the time to be that way, usually just when I was ready to open up to a person they would give up, slowly but surely I am starting to come out of my shell and become more outgoing and it is making a huge difference in my life.
2006-08-16 01:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what exactly the question was. So, I'll give it my best shot. Being shy can be seen as cute (as long as it's not anti-social), but ultimately shy people tend to get passed up. Especially if you're a shy guy, cause you as the guy are expected to be more assertive and outgoing. Of course, there's something to be said for someone who doesn't always have to be the center of attention. The key is balance. Don't be too shy to look someone in the eye and hold a conversation, but don't act desperate for attention either.
2006-08-16 01:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think being shy is an indication that there is something very wrong with someone. Someone probably kicked them around, or something. I don't think it's a "healthy" thing.
Self-worth is the key thing that life is about, and shy people ususaly don't have much of it.
If you're shy, you just miss out on life, "watch life from the stands" and let other people take advantage of you.
2006-08-16 01:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am shy but I really don'tthink it affects me in a negative way. I never introuble for saying the wrong thing becuse I don't say much at all. Sometimes I believe it is to my advantage.
I take everything in. Most of the time I know more about whats going on than the other chatter boxes in the room
2006-08-16 01:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by deann 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is good for kids, but if you too overly shy as a teen or young adult it will certainly affect your future (trust me, I kno and used to be painfully shy). Basically shyness is really fear......so fear becomes the issue that needs to be addressed. What do you fear? When I learned that there was nothing really to fear and I got over my shyness....and seeing how shyness was making me lose out on the great things in life also was a strong motivating factor to help me defeat it....
2006-08-16 01:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by nightcricket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading your question out loud makes me sound like I'm either a 3 year old or someone who is mentally challenged. "I pesonal never see no one very shy i don t know ya did". ??? Here's an idea, go back over what you typed before clicking submit. That made my head hurt trying to understand what the hell you were trying to say.
2006-08-16 02:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is both good and bad. Shy person don't really mixed around with others easily and ppl must be really patient with them. They can be very protective of themselves. But the bad thing is tt they may live in a very small social circle themselves so they have very few friends
2006-08-16 01:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy is just another way to say you are afraid. If you are afraid and you make no move because of it, then no I don't think it a good thing, but I don't know about medication.
2006-08-16 01:56:08 · answer #11 · answered by Aleaha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋