do I have to suffer for love just for the sake of morality?

Question

I feel in love with this guy whos married and older than me, we're in our six years together, with our 4 years old son,all people and my friends telling me that i have to end up my relationship with this man and free my self in such kind of relationship. I tried., I broke my relationship with him. just yesterday, but it seems that i'm going to die and maybe soon be crazy. some advice please.

Answer 1

I would think for the sake of your son, you should end the relationship. What kind of message are you sending to your son to have that kind of relationship?

I'm not trying to be harsh, but have you considered that this guy was just using you? Forget the morality question for now, ask yourself this:
Don't you owe it to yourself and your son to have a relationship based on respect and true love?

I know that what this guy is telling you may sound believable, but your relationship is based on a lie. A relationship based on a lie is not respectful or of true love.

Answer 2

thank you Genzo, I did what you said. my life now is Ok. my son now is 13 year old, I am married now and we adopted our son so that he may use the surename of my husband.