I've only really been in one serious relationship in my life, i was with my husband for many years since i've been a teen and our relationship was very unhealthy.My serious live in bf had the same between him and his wife, so how do i know if my bf is my true love since neither one of us have much exoerience besides are ex's and it was unhealthy relationships? i think it is and so does he but I'm curious.
2006-08-15 18:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by sexy momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
True love is more than just feelings. It also includes how much you desire to be with that person and what you are willing to do for that person.
Actions speak louder than words. If you are willing to be with that person regardless of their circumstance (such as that person gaining weight or even losing their health), that is true love.
However, deeper love usually takes time to develop. I know people who have been married for over 25 years and they love each other more everyday. So...love can and does grow!
2006-08-15 18:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by p_boxter03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is what you make out of it...You either feel it or you don't..... no relationship is without it's trouble...But to test a lasting relationship see how you react with one another in a serious situation..... Being comfortable with one another like a favorite pair of shoes.....My hubby is my favorite everything..... he and I do not always agree on everything, but we compromise great....were open, honest and truthful in every situation.... Even when it hurts..... We completely trust one another.... And it was there form the start....And it has only gotten better in the nearly 13 years we have been married.... You will know when true love wins... Don't look so hard for the answers, let them find you...They will... and you will know
2006-08-16 01:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by wva_butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really were soul mates, you would just know. If you compare each other to your former unhealthy relationships, you guys are not ready to get too serious. If both of your former relationships consisted of cheating and if trust is an issue, you both jumped into this relationship too fast. If you want to keep a healthy relationship, you need to quit comparing each other to your former lovers and start as if you were each others firsts. Good luck.
2006-08-16 01:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by jaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break the news, but you can never know for sure. Time and tribulations and how well they are endured is the only way to find out. Love becomes a very different thing 20 years down the road.
2006-08-16 01:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by noname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be nervous if you see him, but miss him the moment you left him. You are willing to sacrafice everything for him. I know a lot of people who didn't have such a good first marriage, but their second one turned out great. Since both of you know what it's like to have an unhappy relationship, you both probably learned from that previous experience.
2006-08-16 01:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Crescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love can mean different things to different people so it's virtually impossible to give you an answer based on your situation. I can only speak from my own relationship with my husband and that is: true love for us means unconditional love. We love each other for who we are, who we were, and who we will become.
2006-08-16 01:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should explore more then just one guy but on the other hand u 2 would under stand each other better because of what you both went to i say give it a try and if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be
-mily-
2006-08-16 01:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by mily l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is having someone who is there for you no matter what..Who cares how you are and if you are sick takes care of you..Who tells you he loves you all the time...Who when he kisses you makes your heart beat so fast you feel like it is coming out of your chest ....When you are apart from him it hurts and you can't wait to be in his arms again.......Just the way he speaks your name makes your knees weak....Thats true love, and I know how it feels because I love my husband soooo very much
2006-08-16 01:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. So get some more experience. Then when the right thing comes along you will know it. Right now you have very little to compare.
2006-08-16 01:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you die, you will know if it was true love.....other than that, you can only hope that you two will last the ages. Personally, I loved one and let him go, loved another and let him go too, loved a third, and now can't imagine life without him... is he the one for you? ask yourself, because no-one else can answer that.
2006-08-16 01:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋