how do you mend a broken heart?

Question

just need some help, thats all

Answer 1

Time heals all wounds..do something nice for yourself, lean on your friends..and know it will get better

Answer 2

I have a theory called the glass heart theory. At first, your heart is like this beautiful piece of blown glass. It's perfect in every way and so precious to you. One day you decide to give it to someone. They have it for a while and one day - BAMM! They throw it on the ground and it breaks into pieces.

You are distraught. Weeping, you gather up all the pieces. You perfect heart is no more. You wallow in agony, you hate life. But after a while at some point you decide to glue your heart back together. You finish - it has cracks but it's basically a heart again. You give it to someone else one day, but later - BAMM! They throw it on the ground and it breaks again.

You freak out again, but you notice that it's broken like before, maybe worse, but you can still fix it. And you do that. The depression is easier to manage this time, you've been there before and know there's way out.

This process keeps repeating until one day you just decide it's easier to just put all the pieces into a bag and carry them around without having to spend all that time with glue and mending glass. Then you just hand the bag over. If they break it, well, it was broken anyway, and now it's easier just to pick up the bag with broken glass inside. But one day you hand it over, and then they start to put it together for you. It takes a long time, but they do a great job, and now your heart is in one piece again. And if they went to all that trouble, then well they are unlikely to go and break it. And then you've found the person.

Three points:

1. The first time you really get your heart broken is the worst. It gets a bit easier after that.
2. After a while you can take it more in stride. Or at least without going into a deep funk.
3. One day things will all be better.

Answer 3

Carefully analyze what caused the broken heart. Consider the source of the broken heart. Put your feelings in writing. Talk about it to someone you trust. Realize that it is part of life and consider it a lesson learned . Decide that you will somehow turn the experience into a positive thing. Realize that it is not the end of the world, just a temporary painful event . Be patient , sometimes it takes a while to heal. Meanwhile, keep busy with positive things and people.

Answer 4

By accepting that whatever you once had or no longer have is forever gone or no longer an active or vital part of your life. By admitting to yourself this phase of your life is over and you have learned from it, grown from it and accepted it for whatever good purpose, influence or educational purpose it was intended to have on your life.

By maturing and letting it go and moving forward on a positive note. By knowing you gave it your all, your very best and feeling good about the challenge. By facing yourself in the mirror and knowing you are still a good person for having loved it or had it for a while and still being able to love yourself afterwards.

By knowing you are YOU and all is well with your sould and MORE is yet to come!

By being strong and brave and having the courage to STAND tall and rise above the occasion and becoming yet an even better person for it all.

By gaining the knowledge, wisdom and experience and taking it with you into the future and blessing those in need with it when the day comes and knowing God had a plan for that all along.

By knowing one day it will all come to pass that this vast puzzle of a life will show your trail of intricate pieces you've managed to fill in this puzzle and seeing the beauty of it all for your having treaded that path of life. Now all the puzzle forms a glorious picture and without you it would not have been complete.

By loving yourself!

Answer 5

If I had the answer for a quick fix I would tell everyone. But there is no quick fix and for some it takes longer than others.

Stay positive and try not to dwell on what ever or who ever caused it.

And though it is no comfort, we have all at some point been in those same shoes.

Hang in there and remember that as long as you did your very best, then it is OK to move on and take a fresh new start.

Answer 6

Only time, honey. But in the meantime, take very good care of yourself. Do things that make you feel good. Be healthy, go out with friends, get a manicure or a massage. Whatever you do, no matter how tempting it may seem, do not sit home alone stewing. It will only make you feel worse. Stay active and surround yourself with people that love you. You'll get through this.

Answer 7

Unfortunately it isn't an easy fix. It's a mourning process.
But I suggest taking a truthful look at your life and see what needs improvement. The best way to move on is through self improvement. Do things for yourself that you like; renew your interests.

Answer 8

cool off from relationship for a while. Find friends and family support. Indulge in social events to keep you busy and not think too much. Then when you eventually can'start over don't forget to give yourself some faith that there is this one special someone out there waiting for you.

Answer 9

Time can mend everything.Fisrt you can do now is buying an adhesive tape and stick a broken porcelaneous heart.You can rexal immediately!

Answer 10

duct tape ha ha .lot of laughter and faith in yourself and the situation meaning try to find ways to laugh not cry tell yourself u r terrific u r tremendous say that 3 times each day n look in the mirror and be happy of the time you had together with that person now its time to move on

Answer 11

Superglue?
Seriously, though, it will mend itself over time. I've had several myself, and you'll survive. You never forget, but you keep on going all the same, you know?