One of my friend keeps bullying me by hitting me and threatening me to give her money ( but she smetimes pay me back). what can i do? i wanted to tell my teacher but i am afraid that my other friends will side with her.
2006-08-15 18:02:02 · 10 answers · asked by gqcici 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
one of my friends keep bullying me by hitting me and threatening me to give her money. if i tell my teacher i am scared that my other friends would side with her. in my class, i don't hve much good friends except my that 'gang'. i do hve one friend not from the Gang agrees with me that i should tell my teacher and should tell the teacher personally.what should i do? tell teacher or just let it continue? and today my slingbag spoilt and she go and drag my bag on the road and drag it over a puddle. i was very angry so i walk off.
2006-08-15 18:14:40 · update #1
if she's doing that. she's not your friend. stop hanging with her
2006-08-15 18:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Katrina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my sympathy. I think you're between the proverbial rock and a hard place, if you've ever heard that phrase before.
She keeps doing it to you because you let her. You either have to be assertive and tell her you've had enough, or she'll continue to intimidate you. Can you think of any clever comment to come up with that would stop her? This is lame, but something like if you need a punching bag we can always go to the gym.
Does she come from a family not as well off as you and your friends? Maybe she's a bully because she needs the money for lunch or something.
You're right, unfortunately, that if you tell, she'll probably turn the other girls against you--unless she does it to them and when they see you stand up to her, they may side with you. Is there someone else that you & maybe she are close to that you could talk to about your problem?
I don't know if it will help, but read the book PLEASE STOP LAUGHING AT ME... by Jodee Blanco. It talks about bullies--and girls are the worst. Your local library and certainly a bookstore will have more books on this subject (it's being recognized by experts now as a prevalent problem in schools) that you can browse through and maybe find a solution.
I don't feel I've helped much, but I hope things work out for you.
2006-08-15 18:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by goldie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call that a friend? And no one in your "gang" will stand up for you? Sounds like you need a new circle of friends.
2006-08-16 02:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so glad im not a kid anymore. Tell your principal that you want to change classes and let him know its a secret. Tell him if he insist. Bullying has become kinda serious since I was a kids.
2006-08-15 18:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her and make new friends. this time choose your friends carefully. i think you should also tell someone older than you are about your problem and ask for help. i think parents are the best people to talk to about this.
do not be afraid to stand up to others who put you down...
:-)
2006-08-15 19:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by >ScouT< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach her a very important life lesson--tell your teacher.
2006-08-15 18:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by monkey jacket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dah, she's not your friend, she's an abuse, a user, and a loser. And you contribute to her behavior because YOU ALLOW IT. Dump the mutt.
2006-08-15 18:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Iamstitch2U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the teacher it wont stop till you do tell
2006-08-15 18:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop
2006-08-15 18:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can she be your friend?
2006-08-15 18:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by jake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋