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2006-08-15 17:46:55 · 31 answers · asked by "fIrE_stAr" 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

31 answers

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2006-08-15 17:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0 2

I don't really have enemies, not anymore. Most people grow up, including myself. But there are still people I don't really respect. Thing is though, most people usually dislike them, so I honestly feel more pity for them than anything else. You can tell that they hate themselves deep down and are insecure, and that their lives are probably not very enjoyable because of their attitudes. But that doesn't excuse the drama they cause others.

Yeah, I guess you could say that's forgiveness... not taking something personal anymore, and hoping that the person changes for the better.

2006-08-16 00:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 4 · 0 0

yes, there is no reason 2 hold a grudge because if u really think about it, either one of 3 things r true about the situation, the person is either mentally ill and therefore u should feel pity not anger, u would do the same things the person does so then u r jealous and not angry or else the person doesnt know any better and sees wrong doings as the only way 4 attention even if it is negative so there again, u feel pity 4 the things lacking in the persons life.

2006-08-16 00:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by J R 3 · 0 0

Depends on what they did. If they did something worthy for me to call them my "enemy" then perhaps not. There is a reason that I called them an enemy.

I would not. Most likely, they will not forgive you.

2006-08-16 00:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by King of Kings 2 · 0 1

Depends on the situation.For example if my enemy is in dire consequences and at that time if happened to confront i can not hurt the enemy. Similarly, i prefer to excuse the enemy if he/she is in helpless condition. Equals are eligible to fight or hug.

2006-08-16 00:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by vijay 3 · 0 0

Eventually - yes.- I want God to forgive me and in order to GET forgiveness I must forgive.

There is someone I dislike intensely and I cannot get over my anger over things he has done. He was my son's football coach (meanest and most verbally abusive coach they ever had) and our Dentist (wrecked some things that we had to pay thousands to have fixed). I will eventually forgive him but he did so many mean things it won't be soon.

2006-08-16 00:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depends on what they did to become my enemy. somethings cannot be forgiven.while others you can.example, could you really forgive someone for killing your child cause they had nothing better to do.

2006-08-16 00:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0 0

yeah, and heres why.
some people can be enemies for different reasons
if u guys dont like each other just find what drove you both apart and flip it. if it was over a boy, realize what a lozer he was. if it was because of something else, put your self in the other persons shoes. it usually always works!

2006-08-16 00:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by HappyDaze07 2 · 1 0

Yes. It takes more energy to hate someone and stay angry with them than it does to let it go, but just because you forgive someone doesn't mean you forget what they did or become their best friend either. When you hate, it keeps that person in your life. When you let it go, you never have to see them again. Honestly, why would you want to keep someone you don't like in your thoughts and in your life?

2006-08-16 00:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by rainchaser77 5 · 0 0

yes, because unforgivness and bitterness toward my enemy hurt me more than it would my enemy. I could be so angry and bitter that I could melt stone and the person that hurt me could be happy as a lamb and not feel a thing.

2006-08-16 00:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0 0

Yes, holding unforgiveness just hurts you and makes you a bitter person while the other person goes on with their life. Forgive and move on, it's on them now.

2006-08-16 00:52:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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