I met my friend's cousin at a HS graduation. we talked and exchanged numbers. He was really nice. He calls me almost every day and we sometimes go out. I've known him for almost 4 years. all those times, we never did anything together. 3 months ago, he came to chill at my house(watch a movie) but we ended up sleeping together. it wasn't planned...it just happened and i think i have feelings for him. He never said anything about loving me and never asked me out but he gets jaleous whenever i talk to a guy.
We didn't see each other for a month and when he finally saw me,he held me so tight in his arms for a long time. then he told me how much he missed me. do u think he loves me? i don't want to let him know how i feel about him because i really love him. What should I do? Help plz...thank you ppl
2006-08-15 17:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Shyne_06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i don't don't want to tell him that i love him, because i'm affraid to lose him.
2006-08-15 18:03:16 · update #1
Heya,
I think you need to talk to him. He has a right to be jealous only because it's a feeling but if he does get jealous it probably means that he really likes you.
I guess you should just bite the bullet and tell him how you feel, maybe just say that you like him or maybe suggest going out to dinner and making the situation a little more private and go from there.
I don't think you can let opportunities like this pass. If you tell him and he isn't interested then that makes you stronger even though to start with it hurts but if he feels the same way then YAY.
Good Luck.
2006-08-15 17:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by brooksta3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him. You can't know how someone feels about you just by guessing and if you're really into him its worth finding out. Love is a strong word and people use it too loosely. Jealously isn't love. Why would you not want to let him know how you feel about him if you feel you really love him? That doesn't make much sense. I think you should talk to him~Good luck!
2006-08-16 00:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as time has gone by, he has been thinking bout you alot and he has fallen for you. if you love him, whats so bad about letting him know how you feel. let him know that you have been thinking bout him alot and have missed him also. hopefully he will get the idea that you really like him and things will progress for the better from there. you have to takew the move though and give some hint of how you feel
2006-08-16 00:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that yes he does have feelings for you from what you are saying. You two need to talk about this to make sure that you both feel the same way about each other.
2006-08-16 00:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question to you IS why don't you want him to know how you feel ? Are you afraid that he may want to sleep with you again, and that is whats upsetting you ? In any relationship there has to be honesty for it to go any place. Sit down and discuss how you feel. Good luck
2006-08-16 00:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him you would want him to know that, not hide it...you need to be firm and let him know that if he wants to be with you then he needs to be, if he is unsure or doesn't then he needs to back off and let you date other people without him being involved or getting jealous. Decide what you want and do it.
2006-08-16 00:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you banged him with no problem but telling him you got the hots for him, this you have a big problem with? Think about it. Just tell him.
2006-08-16 00:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by snare3011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm .. i would probably advise you to grab chances.. if u really like someone let them know how u really feel.. be truthful...
2006-08-16 01:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by FaErIeOfDoOm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he does..
2006-08-16 00:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋