People hate me..they think i am a loser....?

Answer 1

People act like that to make themselves feel better, my grandmother use to tell me this all the time growing up and I use to think she was just saying that to make me feel better, but as I've gotten older I've found this to be completely true. Negative people are negative for a reason, they're extremely unhappy. Just do your own thing, follow your own path, it will be very lonely and very hard for a while, but eventually others will realize how happy you are and they'll come around.
All leaders have enemies. Albert Einstein was thought to be a moron loser by his professors and classmates, he didn't listen to them, and neither should you.

Answer 2

Yeah, they do. It's likely the thing they really can't stand is that you're not running all the time to get more popularity. Where are your Abercrombie shirts? Your dialog from punk and hiphop?

So you're a loser for not trying to be popular. You're not invited to enough parties, either.

And then you went on Yahoo!Answers and got a lot of pop psychology nonsense about adjusting your attitude and not whining, which is more smoke from the fog machine.

I wasn't popular, either. I graduated from college at 19 and quit working at 53. I want to remind you that the tortoise won the race, not the hare.

The rabbits hate you and think you're a loser --and yet, from experience, I think you'll win the race. Email me if you want some tactics you might find useful.

Answer 3

I'm sorry that people feel this way about you. I know everyone always say to be yourself and to appreciate who you are. Although this is true, if you have destructive or negative patterns in your behavior that exemplifies a "loser" then it does not hurt to modify your actions around others. In other words, behaviorial modification can help improve your social skills. This requires some technique called reprogramming the way you think. Be aware of what you say to yourself because that reflects in what you say to others and what you tell others about who you are. Then you change your thought pattern by changing what you usually say to yourself to something more positive. After awhile, it will become 2nd nature.

We've all encountered people that everyone generally dislikes. It is something about that person or their aura that makes others run in the other direction.

Whatever the case may be, if you choose to do so, make some changes for yourself.

Answer 4

Okay now that you know that either enjoy being a loser or do something about it to be very frank about it only a loser would put such a statement out here because this is not a question.

Answer 5

Who the hell cares what people think? Guess why, because you are not a loser. Most times when people look down on you, it's because they feel threatened by you, somewhere deep down they see you are being better than them. Forget about people and be proud of who you are because you are a beautiful person in mind, body and soul.

Answer 6

goodwithmyha: cool it man! You are putting to much emphasis on your relationship with others. Brother love yourself first and look into the mirror and say I am beautiful over and over. Lift your head high when you walk. Enjoy each moment of life and count your blessings. Work on the Peter Principle and do things for others unconditionally. Smile a lot and wish all love and a good day and finally avoid situations where you are tempted to be selfish! The only friends you have are Mother and Father all other are acquaintances, for acquaintances come and go, mother and father will be there for ever.
I will pray for you!

Answer 7

It sounds to me like you need to find yourself a new group of people to associate with. My suggestion would be to make one good friend. They should be someone you can confide in. They should be able to tell it like it is. If you're doing something that people despise, they will tell you and you can change your ways accordingly.
Secondly, don't take people too seriously. Most of us take out all our frustrations on others and end up hurting them. I'm sure you're not a loser. Don't let ANYONE make you feel that way about you.

Answer 8

your not a loser they're the losers for calling u a loser trust me your not a loser plus alot of girls go with a guy that shares their feeling so u got nothing to worry about

Answer 9

Hey don't listen to all the negitive statements that you've gotten. You should care what they think. trust me I've been there. You need to love yourself first and not care what other think. And by the your not a loser your simply looking for a get away for your own feelings.

Answer 10

that is not the actual reason why they hate you.it is because you are a winner.nobody cares about a looser but they care about you and what you do and that is why they believe that you have a lot of potentials than them.
so dont let that bother you
remember that only important people can be remembered and that you are a winner no matter what people say or do to you.believe and know it,also express it.