What should i do?
2006-08-15 17:27:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anna H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get naked + bring beer = love4ever
2006-08-15 17:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people would say not to get involved with your best friend. However, I had a best-friend that was a guy and we met when I was 15 and he was 22. He knew it was illegal to talk to me so we became extremely close friends. We hung out, and I do mean just hung out. We became best-friends. Nothing physical happened. When I became 19 we decided to take it further, and we did. It was cool because we knew everything about each other. I knew how to piss him off, and he knew the same. I knew when he was lying and he think he knows the same. (We know men don't know when we lie though, LOL) We later had a daughter. I am now 25 and he is 32 and we are still together.
The cool part is I have the best of both worlds. Even though we have been friends for a long time and then lovers, and now we share a 5 year old, I am still shy around him and every time I see him its like I haven't seen him in weeks. We still laugh and joke like best-friends and I still can piss him off.
I think their is nothing better than falling in love with someone that knows you a little better than you know yourself. I say take a chance because everyone deserves to be happy and if you feel in heart he is the one that can do that, than take a chance. The worst that can happen is years from now you guys laugh at the thought of you'll trying to hook up years ago. It will just be a another funny story to share.
2006-08-16 00:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how long you've been best friends, and whether he has ever shown any signs that he may like you, too. Do you think that your friendship could survive if he didn't feel the same about you? Do you think that the friendship is worth more than a chance to date each other? Would you likely still be friends if things didn't work out? If you still think it is worth a try, then wait til a time when you are both comfortable (and alone!) and then pose an open question to him or find some way to open up the topic.
2006-08-16 00:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by poetess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and this guy have to have an experience together. Guys and Girls cannot be friends. It doesn't work that way. But one way it does work is by dating your friend. If it works out that great because you always have to date a friend. What i mean by that is, you and the person go through a process of getting to know each other. Bydating him, you've passed this step and are ready for the next level.
Whatever you do, make it a relationship before you sleep with him. Kiss him, lead him on get his interest and attetention. Then ask him a few questions. He'll follow your lead and then take it from there.....
2006-08-16 00:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. An'zer U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you nervous? Is he not your best friend?
Friends give one another a wide latitude.
The risk you are running is that if he does not feel sexual love towards you then your friendship may be ruined or altered.
Also he would have told you if he felt more than friendship.
Ask yourself: are you willing to risk losing the friendship?
Remember what some wise old guy said, as rare as true love is
true friendship is rarer.
2006-08-16 00:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of x-factors in your question. You should elaborate more about your friend. For instance, does he have a girlfriend? Can you tell if he ever seems flirty toward you? Does he introduce you to his girlfriends? Does he take you along on dates with his girlfriends? Does he pass up spending time with his girlfriends, or others to spend time with you? Does he try to set you up with other men? And, does he pass judgement on other men you meet?
2006-08-16 00:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by socomgoat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and open with him that you have developed feelings beyond friendship for him. It's better to know than let it drag on and be unsure, whatever the outcome may be.
2006-08-16 01:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell directly when you are alone. But before telling make it clear that whatever his answer, the friendship would not affect!
2006-08-16 00:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by dnagsarkar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he's your best friend, then confess your true feelings about him, it'll be hard.......i know. But hey, he's your best friend isn't he? Best friends be honest to each other?
2006-08-16 00:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by Summer Rain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is difiicult but the best way is telling him.If you tell him that you can find out his feeling about you!
2006-08-16 00:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by amindevilboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More proof that a Guy and a Girl CAN NOT be friends.
2006-08-16 00:31:29 · answer #11 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋