am i beautiful??

Question

am i beautiful that is the question i ask my self every single day. i dont hear it from people i know and luv but the only word i hear from guys is that im hot i dnt wanna hear im hot im not allowed to date and i cant even talk 2 a guy which really sucks guys look at me and i feel all they are seeing is someone who is ugly my bff told me if you feel ugly then the world will see you ugly well then does that mean she thinks im ugly i have all gorgeous friends and i feel lyk im the only ugly 1 there why should i be hanging out wit em. now i know i dont have a pic of myself but i feel lyk omg here i go again thinking negative stuff bout my self everything was better when i was little my sister is sooo gorgeous that once we were @ the mall and this model agent came up to her and ask her if she wanted to become a model well my sister didnt want to become a model but i have all ways thought and been my dream to become a model and my sister knew and she never brought it up soo im ugly rite?

Answer 1

everybody is beautiful for him/herself

Answer 2

Walk down the street. Most of the people you will see are ugly. Do you know why this is? It's quite simply because they think they are ugly.

Now I'm not saying that a positive attitude can transform a hunchback into a model, but I am saying that a positive attitude can make anyone at least twice as attractive as they could be.

I'm of fairly average appearance. I'm male, 5'9" (average height for a guy), white, nondescript brown hair, nondescript brown eyes, a fairly standard face, coincidentally skinny. Yet people think I'm beautiful. It's solely because I don't preoccupy myself with what others think of me. I find myself attractive, and that's all that really matters. My personality is so much a part of me that it plays into my appearance. Other people think I'm attractive because of this. I'm quite simply -real-.

Now if you're asking whether you have the correct appearance to be a model—probably not. You generally must be unhealthily skinny, abnormally tall, have a perfect complexion, have perfect teeth, have excellent fingers and nails, and have large eyes. Most people don't look like this. Would you really want everyone to look like a model?

But think about the most beautiful people you know. Do they look like models? The most beautiful people I know don't. They are simply real enough people that you can see their personality even without getting to know them. That's what makes somewhat truly beautiful. That's what you should aspire to be, rather than some plastic, bleached, and anorexic model. You'll be more beautiful that way—and there are actually -some- modelling companies that recognize this style of beauty.

Learn to love yourself and you'll be more beautiful immediately.

Answer 3

I can relate to how you feel. But fact is even with out a photo your boy friend is right I know is sounded as though it was an insult but it was not he was telling you in his own way that you are beautiful. But if you have no self-esteem others will see that instead of your beauty. stop asking your self and try a positive technique look in the mirror and tell your self I am a phenomenal woman phenomenally then say I am beautiful I may not be a model but I am attractive. Building a strong self-esteem is key. Men love a woman that can take a complement and know she is beautiful with out being conceited. your whole life will change once you realize and except the fact that your sister is hot and so are you she just is more aware of her beauty and enhances it. You are sisters you have the same genes Cary your self with pride who knows maybe they will notice you next time. I promise this it is not easy to change a mind set but it can be done and you will be stronger for it.

Answer 4

beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

there is someone for everyone.

those words are said so often that they are bound to have some meaning! i'm sure that you are most definetly not ugly if you can say your sister is gorgeous. (if shes related to you, she and you would have at least some similar genes right?) if you arent satisfied with your look now, there are other things such as makeup, clothes, and plastic surgery but i'd say be happy with what you've got because someone most likely has it worse than you. :] those other material things cost a lot but sometimes don't amount to much. and plus, you can be beautiful inside and those real guys will be able to see it. :]

Answer 5

yes u r beautiful, everyone is beautiful in their own way. hu cares if people don't ask u to be a model, loads models are not that pretty wen they are young (not saying ur ugly). Like kate moss wasn't exactly the prettiest of girls but now look at her. if u think r half decent then show that to the rest of the world hun.
keep smiling :)
xxxxx

Answer 6

You are only ugly if you think you're ugly.
You need to have some confidence that will make you beautiful.
people like other people who believe in themselves.
remember no one is perfect. and i'm sure you have atleast two great features. Awesome eye color? shiny hair? you're skinny? you're tall? your teeth are white, a cute nose, or a great smile.

find something that you love about your appearance and remember it. work it to your advantage.
if you have nice eyes, learn to play them up.
or if you have great hair, do fun styles with it.
if you have long skinny legs, go ahead and wear skirts and shorts, show them off.
feel confident about yourself!

if you were ugly, guys wouldn't be saying your hot. i know you don't want to look hot, but they just mean you're beautiful and they don't know how to say it, because they're immature.

on a scale of one to ten. believing that you look beautiful will make you look more beautiful by atleast four point. in my own opinion.

Answer 7

we all were made in gods image so think about what you said you need to be happy with your self first i don't care if your are 5'9" legs you know and a face to die for people will like you 4 you not your body it's not like you will f--- every man you meet right and if your dream man is blind that is the only thing he will see is your heart love your self always no friend is worth all that

Answer 8

Find your beauty within, and it matters a whole lot less if you're beautiful on the outside... at least as you get older and those boys become men.

If boys say you're 'hot' then that usually equates with beautiful, by the way.

Finally... Please (please please) use (or learn to use) punctuation, Capitalization, and proper spelling. Your post was VERY hard to read; bordering on unintelligible... (so I hope I answered the question you were asking ;-) Once you make it to the business world, this type of writing will be unacceptable.

Answer 9

Everybody is beautiful in their own way and everybody have their own preferences of what is ugly and what is not. Like somewhere in Africa, one tribe in their define beauty as a big hole - the bigger the hole of the mouth is the prettier for them .. or the bigger the hole in the ears is ... the prettier. - well for me they look ugly if they have big mouth and big holes in the ears ... but for them its beauty.
Do you understand what I mean? --- Its just simple ... you might be the ugliest person for someone ... BUT ... you might be the most beautiful person to someone else.
And I think our adventure in life is to find that person who see us beautifully (its hard - i know - but its life) and live with that person peacefully, happilly and with love.
Take Care Beautiful - someone is looking and waiting for you to come in his life.

Answer 10

instead of asking yourself ..you should look into the mirror and look yourself in the eye and TELL yourself you ARE beautiful . Do this everyday until you believe it !

Answer 11

im sure u r but dont worry about it u seem really nice
at least u think u r!!!have a nice day!!!