Alrlight, is there any girls out there that are pleasanly plump and is with a guy who's a bit skinny? That's my situation. I really like this guy and all... But sometimes I feel uncomfortable when wer'e being intimate. Cause I feel like so much bigger than him. My weight doesn't seem to bother him at all. I know it definately bothers me, has always. But I can't help but worry about it when we're together. Give me your thoughts on the subject.
2006-08-15 16:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
think of it this way...you're plump and have a guy who loves you when there are a ton of skinny girls doing everything they can to find a guy...and when they do find him, worry it is based only on their looks. which it sometimes is. you don't have to worry about that..people who like you like you no matter what you weigh. you may even find being accepted for your figure as is gives you new confidence in yourself...obviously, you are worthy of love! and if he likes you plump and you do lose weight later on, you know he won't dump you for it like some guys will dump a skinny gal who gains.... and don't worry, you won't squish him.
2006-08-15 16:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm on the plump side and I LOVE skinny guys! My husband is slim and muscular, and when we met he was really, really scrawny.
At my church is a woman who is very tall, very fat, and must weight about 25-30 stone at least. Her husband is tiny - about 5 foot 4 and looks like he weighs around 120 pounds at the maximum.
It sounds like your boyfriend is happy and comfortable with the way things are, you lucky thing, and I hope you will learn to be as well.
2006-08-15 16:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
big girls need love too!
shake what your mama gave ya girl!
my dad's a guy who likes women larger than him, and there is nothing wrong with it, look at all the fat guys with skinny girls. come on now let go of your inhibitionsand realize that if feels good to him, if it didn't, do you think he'd be coming back for more? you're doin' something right, so keep it going! if you feel really insecure of the weight try to join an exercise group or something like that and you'll gain the confidence you deserve.
2006-08-15 16:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by groverlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are if you are in love then don't worry about it. It would be worse if he was the type of person to pick on you or pressure you about your weight. I think you should be thankful that he loves you for you and doesn't care about your size!
2006-08-15 16:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ohsooocute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys give me inspiration!! I'm in the same boat and feel totally self concious. I'm a size 22 also and he weighs 160 and I feel very inadequate/self-conscious.
2006-08-15 16:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by its me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am size 22, boyfriend weights 135. Its no probelms.
2006-08-15 16:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im more than a little plump im down right fat, and at a bbw convention you should have seen all the skinny guys who love the big warm sexy bbws. dont worry, just enjoy.
2006-08-15 16:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well I am as well plump, but I am working on it, honestly if it bothers you and you really like this guy, lose it, it will be hard but either deal or do !!!
2006-08-15 16:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by christina35221 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to try to lose some weight anyway. You might feel better about yourself than. Did you see Monster House? Is it like that?
2006-08-15 16:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well there is many people like that but if he dose not care about ur wait then he really likes u for who u r not for how u look
2006-08-15 16:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥CRACKER JACKS♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋