If a male wants to become straight and marry women,how can he change his sexual attraction to women from men,because everytime I am in public I see alot of cute guys and cant stop steering help me please
2006-08-15 16:04:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have asked this before. The answer is the same. You can't change.
2006-08-15 16:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by michael941260 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You can't. Just accept how you are. God made you the way he did because that is how he wants you to be. If you marry some woman and pretend to be straight you will most likely end up seeing guys on the side. Shame on you if you give her a disease. Do you pay attention to the news? It was just aired on the news tonght that aids is at an all time high in asian countries because the men are pressured to marry and their is no public education. So these men don't know to use condoms and then are going home and infecting their wives.
Take a chill pill. Give your self time and education. Read up on the subject. Practice safe sex.
2006-08-15 23:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer isn't going to change, anymore than your orientation is. If you are gay, you are gay. If you are bi, you can pick -- but if you are gay, you are gay.
Oh you can hide, you can hate yourself, you can do lots of things -- but your desires won't change.
Living in the closet is miserable and unhappy. You would be better off accepting yourself as you are, and having a happy, fulfilling life.
Email me if you need to talk.
Kindest regards,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
http://www.rebuff.org
2006-08-17 11:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that, but it all came down to people pleasing and religious fanatics telling me what I should or should not be.
I found my own spiritual path, came completely out of the closet, and I highly reccomend it! Orientation does not change. You are still free to do as you like though. There are no rules.
2006-08-15 23:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should pray. I had a girl cousin who was gay and God delivered her from that. She now talks to anyone that she can about homosexuality and how it is not in God's plan. I'm not saying that he condemns people who are homosexual (not in the least bit) God loves each and every one of us, no matter what we do, but in his Bible he does speak on that. Pray to God and he will give you your answer, but do not be ashamed, Do what is in your heart. God will help you with either course. Be Blessed!
2006-08-15 23:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink three cans of diet pepsi , hop on your left foot for ten minutes and shout oooga boooga the whole time . Presto your cured.
2006-08-15 23:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change your sexual preference, just accept who you are. Sure you could pretend to be straight and live the life of a straight man, but you will be miserable inside.
2006-08-15 23:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you cant change that-- you can controll your actions but not your emotions/feelings/attractions-- ya know? Well choose the path that makes you truly happy..
2006-08-15 23:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by neenuh32 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some help and stay away from the brainwashing liberals
2006-08-16 04:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've given up on changing so now im bi hehe
2006-08-16 00:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by crazayaznboi88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋