My girlfriend and I are very happy in our relationship, When we have sex or think of having sex we sometimes preteend either we are lesbians, lesbians sharing a man or straight pimp and whore.
While being a lesbian I put panties on, pads and hoisery with glossy lipstick, she even gets turned on with tampon use.
Though outside the bed we both dont want to live the lifestyle and we are embarressed that we do it. Ive tried on many occasions to introduce her to bisexual girls for her to try except she tells me "I only like that in bed"
I am confused now, can anyone help?
2006-08-15 16:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Does this mean she is bi/gay or Iam bi or gay?
2006-08-15 16:07:10 · update #1
WE DONT GIVE A CRAP WHAT YOU DO IN YOUR BEDROOM.
2006-08-15 16:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
transvestite, It does not mean you are gay. Homosexual is when same gender is sexually attracted to same gender.
I had a friend once that had this issue, and yes he had no knowledge of transvestites and he knew he was a heterosexual, but needed to dress up as a female, often during sex. It did destroy his marriage because the wife began to think he was gay, and he was not. He had troubles for many years, then i told him that was transvestite and sometime or another when he was younger he associated dressing as a female as a sexually feeling or pleasure in some way and it became a sexually feeling issue stuff. I told him kids forget often what they do, and as adults we do not often remember what we did as kids. He thought about it and realized that he had a memory of when he was small his sisters dressed him up as a girl and he had fun with his sisters doing this. So the pleasure he had then became associated over the years with having sex with a female. Something totally Innocent as a child, and he forgot the moments but the emotion stayed and effected him in many ways, because he forgot as a child what he did.
Often children forget what they did when they was 3, 4, 5, ect...
2006-08-18 23:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now she is enjoying what she shares with you, which is unique between the two of you. Just go for it! Ask too many questions, and you can ruin a good thing. BTW, nobody has to qualify what brings them pleasure, as long as nobody is getting hurt in the process. Everything cannot be labeled, nor needs to be. Have a great time dude!
2006-08-15 23:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fun. You should buy her a strap on dildo and ask her to play the male or butch role. Maybe she'll get to like screwing you with it and then will want to try it out on a real girl. Or maybe you can find a cute transvestite or crossdresser to join you. Then you can both experience something new. Don't be embarassed. You'd be surprised at how many guys do kinky stuff like this.
2006-08-18 00:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by debbysfemail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about "what other people think" or what labels to use. All that matters is that you two are in a happy, healthy relationship (I hope.) and that you two enjoy it. There's nothing wrong with that what you two are doing or the fact that you two enjoy it. Just enjoy the relationship and don't worry about that stuff.
2006-08-16 09:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she's willing to indulge your fantasy because she loves you, but don't try to force her to do something she's not into. Just enjoy your playtime together and be grateful for a woman who loves you this much.
2006-08-16 10:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by captlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just mean, you're both into roleplay and sexual fantasies that she wants them to stay in the bedroom.
2006-08-16 17:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to, right? You do. Either you do without or go elsewhere.
2006-08-15 23:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by emeraldliliy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with it for now and she may change her mind evetually
2006-08-15 23:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by ph cherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is way TMI
2 points!
2006-08-15 23:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋