I fantasize about being with a woman, but I am married. Am I the only one. My husband and I have been together since high school so I never got the chance to experiment Am I the only one???
2006-08-15 15:32:17 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Stef 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
NO. many, many women fantasize sexually about eating another woman out, etc. it doesn't mean you are a lesbo. you have been with your hubby since high school so I'm guessing you didn't have alot of sexual experimentation? there's not wrong with having sexual thoughts about a man or a woman (only screwed up if you wanna bang an animal)....LOL. you're NORMAL.
2006-08-15 15:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
nope, not the only one! i have the same thoughts, all the time. i'm not married, but my problem is that i always get into really intimate relationships where i feel like i am! (which has happened twice since i started having these thoughts.) and where the guy has been really mad at the idea of me wanting to experiment, and would consider it "cheating" if i did. it sucks, b/c i definitely feel like i never got a chance to try a bunch of stuff that everyone else did (i'm 28 now).
these are strong desires, and at some point, i'm just gonna have to do it. though i'll have to be on a "break" from my bf, or actually broken up... and though i don't even know how to go about finding that woman do do it with... lol.
as for you, maybe there's some hope -- have you talked to your husband about it? maybe he'd like the idea, or would even want to watch? anyway, i totally feel your frustration... feel free to PM me if you want to talk more about it!
2006-08-15 15:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by melon_rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women fantasize about women. women are beautiful if you want to try a woman do not let your husband watch
2006-08-15 16:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women have those feelings. If you really want to be with a woman, seriously ask you hubby about a threesome. Make sure it's with someone you trust,not just some hooker off the street.
2006-08-15 15:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, I've heard its quite normal and there's nothing to worry about. I've had thoughts about women, but they go away real fast. Anything we haven't experienced might make us wonder about it or if we missed anything. Human nature.
2006-08-15 15:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. But if you choose to act on those feelings, whether you "include" your husband or not, you are putting your marriage in jeopardy. Is it worth it?
2006-08-15 15:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thr many ppls like u out thr in tis world, esp in the states. so dun wori too much. its jus fantasy only.
2006-08-15 15:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by ViNNzZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the only one. It's normal.
2006-08-15 15:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋