i am a virgin. my boyfriend has got a big organ. how should i handle him in 1st intercourse?

Question

i never had sex before. plz advise me by experienced females.

Answer 1

dont have sex if ur not married...thats my advice

Answer 2

1st off males can carry and pass to you cervical cancer virus; not to mention AIDS, genital herpes and a number of bacterial infections that can incubate in your vagina causing severe itching, tuna fish odor, and excessive moisture from the vagina caused by parasites.
Uncircumcised males are more likely to carry the AIDS virus due to the foreskin. And if all of that isn't enough you could become pregnant. My advice; Don't do it!
If you still plan to throw your viginity away, use a condom(follow directions)grab a clean towel and remember this; you will bleed when your hymen breaks. It will be very messy, and last a day or so or more, like a period. It is possible with a large penis to rip or tear the opening of a virgin vagina. There is such a thing as too big.
Plus prepare yourself incase your boyfriend dumps you. 8 out of 10 young males do. Most likely he will brag to his buddies. He will be the stud and you will be the tramp. It's been like that from the beginning of time. Even tho some, not all, young men lay around; they still want virgins to marry.
Once you loose your virginity you can never get it back.

Answer 3

first make sure that your ready for sex , that it is your decision not made under pressure. When you do decide to have sex it won't matter about the size as long as your comfortable with this person. First make sure that your boyfriend knows that your a virgin, ask him to go slow an be gentle then you relax an enjoy the experience.

Answer 4

If you've never had sex before, how do you know your b/f has a big organ. What have you to compare it too?

Seriously. Avoid having sex with your b/f. He isn't going to marry you. He's just out to get your virginity. He will dump you in less than a year.

Answer 5

In this situation, wait until you are at least 25 because sex hurts less as you get older. Once you reach that age, use a little lube on your area and straddle him. you will be in control as you come down on him as far as how fast and deep it goes in. Let us know in about 10 or 12 years how it goes.

Answer 6

There are alot of opinions out there. I won't lecture you....but I will give advice.

Big means....need very good lubricant...as it will hurt. Use KY. Use a condom. Be patient....and remember that it will hurt.

If possible...go for as much foreplay as possible. This will help. Be safe and make sure he is the one that is worth giving up the most special thing you can offer a man physically.

Answer 7

first of all I would hope that you are in a serious relationship!! Second your question is posted in teen and pre-teen. If your looking for advice talk to your doctor. If you don't have one you better get one before deciding to have sex or your going to have bigger problems than your boyfriends organ!!!!

Answer 8

Here's more advice for another sex obsessed kid (I'll you kid's new fangled language): "You don't want a freakin' baby!" Is that sufficiently clear to you? I cannot state that in simpler terms.

Answer 9

Well ..the best thing is to do ride on top of your boy friend and get it slowly.If still not comfertable change your B/f

Answer 10

1st how old r u ...
dont rush in usally thats all they want
i was 18 before i had sex.
make sure ur comfortable n ready go slow n stop if it hurts

Answer 11

first timeout they all are big, no matter the size !lol ! just lubricate it with xylocaine 2% gel. and just bite your teeth if you think you have a hymen. but i doubt it ! nowaday girls hardly have hymens as the physical activities like cylcing, horse riding and sports tend to loosen/break the hymen. it wont be painful as you think. but just for your psychological support use the above .