my boyfriend are aiways arguing and it is emotionaly draining me
2006-08-15 15:24:24 · 12 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then its time..is this what you want from a relationship? When you met him did you say wow check him out I bet he would argue with me and drain me emotionally and thats just what I'm looking for? If not, its time to go. You know is will not work out in the long run, all that will happen now is you will tolerate it longer and why?
2006-08-15 15:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same exact thing me and boyfriend argue over stupid stuff but after awhile it does drain you, right now we haven't spoke since Sunday morning and I miss him but not the arguments,but I also believe that this time apart is good for me right now even though I don't like it bc I don't know if we are still a couple or not but you can try some space for a while and see what happens good luck
2006-08-15 16:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by single mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience would have me tell you to get out while you can. I have been with a man for 16 years. We have been married for 12 years. We argued a lot while dating, but the passion and infatuation with each other always found a way to work it out. When it was good it was really good. In fact I couldn't imagine anything better. Unfortunately, when it was bad it was degrading and unfair. Now, the passion has subsided and there is really nothing left. Counseling only helps for a short period of time. I am 41 and considering a divorce. Please think long and hard before you make anymore commitments to this relationship.
2006-08-15 15:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by tkw2013 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're always arguing on everything, perhaps you need to give each other some space and do your own thing for a while. Maybe you're spending too much time together. Without knowing your situation, I think it's best that you separate for a while and work on your own issues.
2006-08-15 15:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've already made up your mind on this one!
If he's getting off on the arguing then give him the flick - it ain't normal! Most relationships have their ups and downs - but to constantly argue itsn't good for your soul.
Go back onto the dating scene - it's better than feeling sad!
2006-08-15 15:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want a relationship like that where we will always be arguing. Its one big headache and no amount of understanding will change the way the two of you are. Set him free, let him go....if he was really meant for you....he will be brought back to you, he will come back. But for now...try to meet others.
2006-08-15 15:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by mylenekeane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give as in give up? That's a toughy. If you're arguing about small pointless things, maybe you should both stop nitpicking, but if it's bigger important things, than maybe it's not meant to be and you're too different.
2006-08-15 15:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Octo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any kids involved? If not. Honey if it is like that now you need to move on. It won't get any better. You don't deserve to be treated like that. There are alot of men that will treat you like a lady. Good luck.
2006-08-15 15:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart.if you two love each other then find a way to pull threw it.my boyfriend and i were the same way.but then we decided we really loved each other and worked threw all the problems and now we are better then ever
2006-08-15 15:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if it is worth the effort to work through this rough patch. If you two are meant to be, it will work out somehow.
2006-08-15 15:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by ElEdTeach 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋