We have sex at least 3 times a week, but he still masturbates daily, I think he has a masturbation problem. What do you think???
2006-08-15 15:19:38 · 27 answers · asked by ♥ Stef 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I thought I was the only one. My husband does the same thing every day. Even in the bed next to me when he thinks I am sleeping all the time. And I believe I give him plenty. I would like to know if he has a problem too?
2006-08-15 15:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by mommyaf 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't let it bother you. Nothing wrong with what he is doing. Alot of straight people believe that once you are married that the penis belongs to the wife. The only thing that the husband can do with it is to urinate with it. Same with the female. She should be able to masturbate without her husband lending a hand. And visa versa. Long as he is not having any type of sex with anyone else it is nothing at all to worry about.
2006-08-15 15:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are typical. Most people assume that whatever amount of sex they want is normal and anyone who wants more is abnormal. However, it really shouldn't surprise you that sexual desire varies among people just as most everything else does. The typical couple has sex between once every two weeks and twice a week. So, at three times per week your desire is 3X higher than average. Are you abnormal? Do you have a sex problem?
About 2% of couples have sex everyday. Apparently, your husband is in this smaller range away from the center of the curve. I might mention that my preference and my girlfriend's preference is three times a day.
2006-08-16 11:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by scientia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a day is nothing - it may be something he is used to. I typically masterbate every few days (usually when I'm bored) - but there is not problem, there are a LOT worse out there, with people who have to masterbate more than 3 times a day, etc.
He may be addicted, because when a guy masterbates it releases the endorphins and dopamine in your brain to make you happy - the same effects you would get from eating chocolate, having sex, or doing a line of cocaine.
So because it makes him so happy, it could be addictive - but I dont think that is a problem unless he like has to do it in public or something weird.
Don't worry.
2006-08-15 15:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by silver5802 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. like the guys say, "he's horny". lol nothing wrong with that. he's a dude. guys like sex everyday. literally. usually a couple times a day. for most guys a good day starts off with a good shag first thing in the morning, a dump and a shower then a huge breakfast served by you wearing nothing but an aprin and stelittos. k. then mid afternoon, a ******** in the office before going out to lunch with the guys and kicking back burgers and beer served up by some busty waitress. then comming home at night. to find you nude waiting in bed for another shag. (well after dinner and walking the dog). and a good nights sleep. seriously, no kidding. ask any guy, i know i'm right and i'm a single woman.
p.s. that's why i'm single. guys can be a chore. think of all the cooking and cleaning in between the shagging.
2006-08-15 15:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't agree with some answers above.If u have sex with ur bf 3 times a week and he still masturbate everyday ,for him that will be harmful and it is deviant.try to talk to him and try to make him feel that u have considered and it is for his own good.(sure it is for his own good.)many ppl thinks that it's nothing bad for masturbation but i would like to say too much is harmful.this will hurt his nephdium.try to talk to him seriously but don't make him feel that u r jealousness.Good luck
2006-08-15 15:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's either got a high sex drive, or just really likes the feeling of masturbating.
Try having sex every day for a couple of weeks, and see if that makes a difference. If it doesn't, you know he just loves to pleasure himself.
Sounds pretty harmless.
2006-08-15 16:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't know if it's a problem, but most (especially married ones) see masturbation as their own time. It is their time to get away from the woman they "have to have sex with", and be able to fulfill fantasies with other women, without actually doing it. It is better than having him cheat on you. Count your blessings. god bless.
2006-08-15 15:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Help 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that maybe your husband has a high sex drive and 3 times a week isn't good for him
2006-08-15 15:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by izzo808 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are happy with 3 times a week, while he has to *** 7 times a week, somehow theres a need to close the gap. So he is using his hands to close the gap... thats all. No need to worry... unless he goes to someone else to close this gap.
2006-08-15 16:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by Paco 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋