I am a lesbian, and sometimes I might see a guy and mention that he is cute. My mother says that I'm bi, and my co-worker says that I'm confused, but I'm not. I may think some guys are cute, but I don't want to have sex with any of them. There is a major difference between thinking someone is cute and being sexually attracted to them. It's no different than some straight girls who comment that another girl is pretty, that doesn't mean she's gay or bi. Or a gay man who thinks a woman is pretty, that doesn't mean he wants to have sex with her. Can't lesbians thinks some guys are cute, and still be gay?
2006-08-15 15:04:51 · 30 answers · asked by ac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes grrl... you won't have to give back your toaster even if u think a guy is cute. Heheh. ;o)
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if u see a guy is cute, then admire him. If u see a girl is cute, then admire her. Nothin' wrong with that. God gave men and women unique physical qualities and beauty, so why the heck shouldn't we admire them if that's what God gave 'em? So what if you're a lez? It won't lessen your being gay just bec. u think a guy is cute.
2006-08-15 17:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by mags 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well most people can tell when another person is ugly its just the public doesn't have a sexual catagory for that. So people can tell when another person is attractive. Just try not to pay attention to labels All through high school I knew I was bi people either said that I was lesbian or straight. Now one of my co workers says I don't really like women because I am too picky and waiting for the right one. I do the same with guys and I have no regrets.
2006-08-15 18:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by BabyBella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can, my Dear One. I find a lot of men to be quite attractive and I'm very much a die-hard lesbian. I find many young men to be as cute as a button too, but now I'm dating myself. I do like to look at the bodies of both young and older men, and I adore a man with longish hair and a beard (whooha!) Do I want to have sex with them? Absolutely not, but I do admire them. There's certainly nothing wrong with that.
2006-08-15 15:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. You are right. Just because you have a preference does not automatically mean that all others are toads. I am totally hetero and I see a lot of sharp guys. where did you get all of these strange notions. Just because someone sees another person as being a good dresser or a sharp person does not mean they want to have sex for goodness sakes.
2006-08-15 15:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tony T 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're right. I'm a gay man, gay as a goose, but I still have a pretty good idea what a hot girl looks like. And I look, too!
2006-08-15 16:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
certainly you can. I'm a lesbian and can find some men attractive... that doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. Unless you are fantasizing about having sex with guys only you are still a lesbian in my book.
2006-08-15 15:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jereza 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mawahahaha!!!!!! Well said.
Geezzzzze, sometimes ya gotta wonder what floats between their ears. Are lesbians supposed to look at the David and think it not a work of art? LOL!
Hilariously ridiculous thinking, that's all it is.
2006-08-15 15:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay, and I can tell when a woman is good looking to me or not, I just wouldn't want to have sex with them either.
I know I'm not confused either so I agree with you totally.
2006-08-16 10:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course... I am gay, but I still can say that a girl is pretty, it's not as if i was attracted to her...
2006-08-15 19:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by Gilno E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ac U have a good point..There r guys that I find attractive but I cringe with the thought of sleeping with them.. I still don't even know if I'm bi or lesb..but at this point in my life..the thought of a penis most times make me sick!
2006-08-15 15:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by quizzed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋