To be only a little attracted to someone else or to think someone is cute? I love my boyfriend with all my heart, would never think to leave him and nor do I want to be with anyone else, but am I wrong to be a small bit attracted to another guy?
2006-08-15 14:50:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank you. I've been feeling like a horrible person for the way I thought. I don't like the guy nor do I get butterflies or any tingling feelings when I see him. I'm merely attracted to him a little bit. Cheating or leaving my boyfriend is the most insane notion. I love that man with every ounce of my soul, but being that I think someone else is cute, I thought "Is our relationship going sour?" or "Am I falling out of love?"...although emotionally and mentally, I'm still soooo in love with him.
2006-08-15 15:01:16 · update #1
No because even the most terrific mate in the world isn't the only person on the planet you can find attractive...it's healthy and normal. What you do with those feelings is what's significant. It seems like you're doing the right thing by remembering your boyfriend as a whole person of substance and not just physical characteristics you happen to find appealing. That's a very good sign. Because looks fade over time, and everyone has "off" periods from time to time. It's gratifying to value and be valued by our partners even when we're not at our best. Good for you!
2006-08-15 15:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with thinking someone else is attractive. Goodness! Your in a relationship not dead! Even when you are married you will continue to find other people attractive. The situation only gets bad when you decide to pursue that person. So as long as you don't try to do anything you are not a bad girlfriend.
2006-08-15 14:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, do you know how many guys have wondering eyes and what not? Just because you're attached right now doesn't mean everything in your brain and body turns off and suddenly you can't be attracted to other guys. Don't worry about anything you're just being a normal human being and in no way are you being a bad girlfriend.
2006-08-15 14:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It is natural to be physically attracted to people. It won't go away simply because you are in a relationship. If you have a partner with even an inkling of intelligence, they'd be cool with it if you found another person to be hot, because I guarantee they've done it too. As long as you don't act on it, your feelings are totally normal.
2006-08-15 14:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by The girl in pink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you are not a bad girl, you just have a feeling with another guy,you can be a nice friend to that person. Although don't forget to inform to your b/f about your relationships with another person.If your b/f truly love u, he will trust u and understand about your friendship.
2006-08-15 15:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by thara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural. He's not the only fish in the sea, nor is he, most likely, the best looking one.
It's perfectly okay. The reason people don't want you to look, is insecurity. I go out and TELL my gf to look, because I'm confident that she'll stay with me.
I once made a CD-ROM of Brendan Frasier for my now ex-gf, because she thought he was hot - and it got her hot, and then she made out with ME.
2006-08-15 14:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that's normal because your boyfriend might think that a another girl is attractive just make sure you be careful that it does not become an habit.
2006-08-15 15:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature....I'm sure your boyfriend has felt a "little" attraction to other women but would most likely never admit it to you for fear of ticking you off. As long as you don't act on this attraction you are fine.
2006-08-15 14:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural to be attracted to the opposite sex, but when in a commited relationship, you must remember that you are commited.
No harm in looking, But remain faithful.
2006-08-15 14:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It perfectly natural to be attracted to others... as long as that doesn't progress into cheating or flirting you are all good... I wouldn't be too open about your attraction though, most men's egos are crushed if you have wandering eyes..
2006-08-15 14:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋