ive been with my boyfriend for a year and i love him to death.. i am not ashamed of him or anything.. im more of the friendly hyper type..and my bfs more of the quiet shy type but when hes around me ..hes very active and talkative.. so whenever i introduce him to my friends he just says hi..shakes their hand.. not really talkative..and this bf of mine is serious .. i want all my friends to like him but like they think he just doesnt really talk and just never talks..i know i cant force anyone to like anyone but .. what do i do.. i think my friends think hes boring.. i wanna be the couple taht can joke around and make everyone laugh.. so help me?.. when we are around HIS friends..hes talks.... my friends are younger 2 years..is the year difference make a diff?..it seem slike he doesnt want to meet my friends..but older ppl..he is interested in..well who knows..help me.
2006-08-15 14:42:13 · 3 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are two different people – if you try to change him you may drive him away.
Personally I would have dumped you for being annoying.
2006-08-15 15:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have a gathering or party of some sort where your friends and his friends would be together. Then he might be more inclined to opening up. And when your friends see him open up, and talk they might accost him and he might start talking to them then. Or they would have the chance to intervene in a conversation he might be having with one of his friends; then he would see how intelligent your friends really are.
2006-08-15 21:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by justthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's comfortable around you and his friends. If he's just meeting your friends give him time. I'm the same way, I don't open up entirely when I first meet someone.but when I do I know i've become more comfortable around them. It's all timing.
2006-08-15 21:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by angry_elfboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋