I'm not trying to be funny, he really is a moron, and this is what I have to deal with, he wants me to obey his stupid commands that are dumb and I mean literally that he is a moron. Why did I ever marry this man with no common sense? What's worse that a moron husband? A stubborn, spoiled husband that always has to have his way or it is the highway, and when their way is stupid on top of that, you just can't win, they are always making your life miserable. How do I quit losing my temper with min?
2006-08-15 14:37:15 · 14 answers · asked by hi t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is about to be an ex, who cares about losing your temper with him. I say let it rip ..... sounds like the moron deserves it.
2006-08-15 14:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OH if we only knew how big of arses the idiots we married were before hand... as they say, "Hind sight is 20/20."
I know, even after 6 yrs of being away from the ex-idiot, I still get pissed. I know that my ex abused not only me, but drugs and alcohol. I truly understand how rough it can be. I also know that leaving is even harder. Everyone thought it was my fault, and I was the reason he was having such a "rough time". Just remember, it is not your fault. YOU have to take care of yourself, at all costs.
As for the temper and not getting angry with him, you have to find it in yourself to forgive. I realize you will never forget, but once you forgive yourself, then you can start to help yourself to move on. Once this happens (and it does with time), you will allow his stupidity to affect you less and less. Just remember, in time, you will be able to ignore his insults, and others will see how childish he really is.
Good luck, and stay safe.
2006-08-15 15:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to remember there is a thin line between love and hate. Him being able to really irritate you means you still have feelings for him. Once you realize this, it's much easier to dismiss all the feelings for the person. He should have no power over you.
2006-08-15 15:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Edward T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no contact with him. Get your phone number changed and unlisted so that he cannot call you. If he is harrassing you, get a legal injunction against him that will keep him away from you. Then you won't have to worry about losing your temper, because you will have eliminated him from your life.
2006-08-15 14:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well avoid him at all cost. If he starts acting rude towards you or a moron as you say tell him you do not have time for it at the moment and go on with what you were doing..
2006-08-15 14:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by shawn w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat and bash a pillow for 30 days.
Do this every day in a quite room all by yourself.
After 30 days you will feel clean, free and re-freshed.
2006-08-15 14:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok him to death....that's what I did. It will most likely upset him more and hopefully he'll walk away. Ex's aren't work the energy that you put into losing your temper. Just keep reminding yourself, it's almost over...
2006-08-15 14:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by momofmichaeljacob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile back at him when you can´t stand his senseless attitude instead of losing your temper. He will be your soon to be ex now remember? So keep it and stay beautiful. =)
2006-08-15 14:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by gorgeous_gaiL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women ten to think they can change guys....They end-up like you,frustrated and Warren out. The best way to handle the "Master" is to walk away. Just get up and walk away.That way he gets mad.Trust me.
2006-08-15 14:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep the peace until you leave....that's what I would be doing. If he angers you, just walk away knowing that it won't be long until you leave. It's also great motivation to NOT procrastinate!
2006-08-15 15:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋