how can he deal with my angry outbursts and deppresion
2006-08-15 14:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe they can't. Are you doing anything to manage it? taking meds? seeking therapy to work through it? If not do you really expect your spouse to hang around for that kind of abuse?
2006-08-15 14:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to deal with your "angry outbursts" and "depression". Being diagnosed with bipolar disorder doesn't give you permission to act like a child. If you are married, you are an adult. Act like one. You need to work with a therapist and come up with constructive things to do when you are feeling like having an outburst. Excersice is good to burn off energy when you are feeling manic or to help pull you out of your depression. Bottom line is you have bipolar disorder so it is yours to deal with. All your spouse can do is be supportive, but you have to do the work.
2006-08-15 14:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a family member with this problem and my family member takes medications and sees the doctor on a regular basis. Thus, there are no more outbursts and very little depression now. Get to your doctor and do what you have to do. Then, if you spouse loves you, he will stick by you even when you relapse.
2006-08-15 14:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use your sickness as an excuse to have them. he should not have to deal with them, only you should. Get a doctor to get you on the proper meds so that this never happens. You certainly need to be married to a patient person, who should just go for a walk or a drive when you are like that, because your outbursts and depression cannot be helped by him in anyway. Only by you.
2006-08-15 14:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should understand that Bi-polar is a chemical imbalance in your brain and these mood swings are not your fault. As long as you take your medication, if you are prescribed any, your mood swings shouldnt be too bad.He also needs to know that he is not to take these outbursts personally as they are not purposely aimed at him. As far as the depression goes, he should give you time alone if you need it and not feel rejected.
2006-08-15 14:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Davesgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get a good handle on your diagnosis and be sensitive to your emotions and behavior. Talking to your doctor and reading up on current info will give him accurate knowledge.
2006-08-15 14:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating an upbeat cheerleader.
2006-08-15 14:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you take your medication keep you away from the kids we all saw what happened with that other lady
2006-08-15 14:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to make sure you take your meds.
2006-08-15 14:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋