i met this black girl and at first she called me every day wanting me to go to church with her.i went to church and she treated me like a dog.called me boring.then she wanted money.for i month she never called .she say we argue tooo much.she said her phone was to be cut off but it is still working after 2 weeks and wanted me to pay $92.00 phone bill. the only way we communicate is on the computer we alwaya get in an argument on the phone.how would you handle this
2006-08-15 14:04:58 · 39 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Uhm...bail out?
2006-08-15 14:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run and keep running don't look back. Just keep going.
Hey Im a black woman and I say run, only because she's after what she can get from u. I know of women this way and all she will ever want from u is $$$$
If she want money to pay bills tell her to ask those babies daddy's or ask the church to help her.
Don't get involved with a woman like this she's bad news. No matter how she try to sound sad or sweet talk u, don't allow her in ur wallet because she will take u for everything and u will never get it back, even if u take her to court she'll claim it was a gift.
My hubby's friend was involved with a black woman and she used him like a kleenex she even had her family use him, I told him he needs to open his eyes( And I didn't even like him) but because I knew what she was up too I didn't want to see him used. Im sure she was pissed at me for telling him to not allow her and her family use him.
I don't like to see someone being used by a person who cares nothing about the other person.
So end it with her and don't go back
2006-08-15 14:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, your dumb.
This woman has two warning signs that she is inappropriate.
The first is that she is black. Don't go crying to me about racism. The sad fact of the matter is that most black people are of low quality as mates. Sure, there are a handful of exceptions. These people all have advanced college degrees and are successful and you certainly don't see them acting like typical black people. I got news for you. That ain't your woman. YOUR woman is the type of black girl who is one of the women in AIDS statistics that is 40X more at risk than all other women. The type of woman who is on welfare and has children with some guy who is a drug dealer, currently doing a stretch in prison. Unless you are some sort of drug using criminal, you would have to be retarded to be with a woman like this.
The other warning sign is that she has kids with another man. Never, ever, EVER consider a woman like this. Either she is a bad person who broke her family for some stupid reason or she is the type of woman who has kids with evil men....the type who beat her and then run off, leaving her to raise the kids alone.
Do yourself a favor and just disappear. Pick up and go and don't let her know where you are. She's trouble with a capital T and if you stay with her, you are basically a loser.
2006-08-15 14:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. You're not dating, you don't even see each other in person, why in heaven's name would you pay her bills or give her money in any way? Trust me, if she needs money, she'll come up with it without you footing the bill.
By the way, it doesn't matter if this girl is black, yellow, purple, or polka-dot. She's rude and a user.
Stop all communication with her. This is going nowhere good. Go find a normal woman who will appreciate you, will not call you boring, and will not argue with you and give you a guilt trip over something that is absolutely not your responsibility. Good luck.
2006-08-15 14:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man forget about this girl. I am a black woman with 2 kids. They are 8 and 12. Not all black women act like that. She wants something from you. Your better to move on now. I am married to a wonderful white man and I don't treat him like that.
2006-08-15 15:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man what is wrong with you . I am black and all I have to ask you if she were white would you take this abuse. Is this your first girl friend or what. As a man you have to garner respect from the start or you will be in an abusive relationship. I say run as fast as you can don't look back RUN RUN RUN !!!!!!!! HEY ITS TOO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE TO BE DOGGED OUT BY ONE.
2006-08-15 14:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Icando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget this black girl. There is no chance to build a relationship with the girl like that. What you have to do is just take advantage on her if there any opportunities. At least she knows you're smart too.
2006-08-15 14:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need to be kicked in the head..First of all black or white is not the issue.. The womans treating you bad.. Wake up you dont need us to tell you what to do.. Wave good by when you leave.. Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-08-15 14:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would handle it with my shoe BUT I am a female and u are a male and sorry no touchy. But roll out like fast and quick cut off all commuincation and change your screen names
2006-08-15 14:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by K.L.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself out of it . She has too much problem of her own . A single Mom with two kids and no money .. She hates herself and she wanna blame everyone else for her own mistakes .
Talking from personal experience ....
2006-08-15 14:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the middle of Baby Mama Drama...she does not seem to want a man as much as she wants a baby daddy......bye bye sister girl
2006-08-15 14:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋